Today we’re looking at sweet spot girl names.
They’re the names that we all recognize, but don’t hear everywhere. You may know a kid or two who answers to them, because many are rising in use. But in terms of temperature I’d call them Goldilocks: neither the too-hot trendy that characterizes fast risers, nor the chill of former favorites now tumbling in use.
What else defines sweet spot girl names?
- One spelling dominates. Sure, you might meet a Kwyn or even a Jynnaveev, but they’re the exception. And even names like Ana and Elyse lag well behind their more familiar counterparts.
- While they may share characteristics with other names, they’re not part of a name cluster, like the many -bella/-belle names.
- The names claim some history – even if they’re not traditional girls’ names, they’re not recent inventions.
For numbers purposes, I avoided names that rose dramatically in recent years. (Even though that knocked out a few worthy candidates.) I also skipped names that fell in use dramatically – though some names on this list have declined slightly in use in recent years.
For plenty of parents, sweet spot girl names are the goal. And yet, it’s tough to know when you’ve found one. So no more confusion: here’s my list of 28 sweet spot girl names.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Adelaide
Current US popularity rank: #258
In an age of many Addie names, Adelaide feels distinctive. Sure, it shares the friendly nickname embraced by so many Adalyns and Adelines, but the -laide ending stands out, with a strong ‘a’ sound and unexpected ‘d’ ending. Regal Adelaide belongs to a huge name family, but might just be the most distinctive of the bunch, a sister for Elizabeth or Katherine.
Read more about Adelaide here.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Alice
Current US popularity rank: #76
Storybook Alice ages nicely, a sweet name with plenty of substance. That’s a tough combination to pull off! An earlier generation opted for frillier Alice-names, like Alicia and Alyssa. Today, spare and elegant Alice feels like the most stylish of the group. If Adelaide is regal, Alice feels quietly capable – though the names are cousins. Nothing else really sounds quite like Alice, though the ‘s’ ending appears in other classic girls’ names, like Frances and Elise.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Anna
Current US popularity rank: #51
Classic and enduring Anna almost cracks the US Top 50. She’s sister to Queen Elsa in Disney blockbuster Frozen. Quvenzhané Wallis starred in an update of Annie at Christmas 2014, followed by the new Netflix Anne with an E series, based on the Anne of Green Gables stories. This name is everywhere – and yet it doesn’t feel overexposed. Anna makes an alternative to Top Ten picks like Emma or Ava, a two-syllable, ends with -a girls’ name that hits the sweet spot.
I’ve yet to write a post about Anna! But check back, and I’ll update this when Anna is complete.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Caroline
Current US popularity rank: #56
Caroline comes from Charles – just like current Top Ten favorite Charlotte. Both names boast history galore and plenty of famous, accomplished bearers. But while Charlotte sounds like a sister for Sophia, Caroline feels timeless. A long-time Top 100 name, it belongs with the most classic of girl names. But unlike some traditional picks, like Mary or Sarah, Caroline doesn’t seem overused in recent generations. That makes for a winning combination.
Read more about Caroline here.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Cecilia
Current US popularity rank: #179
Cecilia comes with a lively pop song soundtrack, friendly nickname Cece, and a lovely -lia ending that matches up nicely to current favorites like Amelia. Traditional and feminine, but never overused, Cecilia makes an appealing substitute for Top Ten favorites like Sophia and Olivia. There’s a prettiness to this name, shared by many modern favorites like Sienna. But Cecilia also possesses all the vintage charm of Eleanor or Lillian.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Daisy
Current US popularity rank: #190
It’s easy to dismiss Daisy as a too-cute nickname name, and yet that’s not quite right. While it traditionally connects to Margaret, Daisy has stood as an independent name for years, ranking in the US Top 1000 every year since 1880. If Mary and Lucy, Violet and Rose can be complete, why not this name? With nature names, vintage picks, and nickname names in favor, Daisy feels like the best of all possible worlds. And let’s not forget Daisy Ridley, the youngest actress at the heart of the new Star Wars trilogy.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Eden
Current US popularity rank: #148
Biblical names boast a long history of use. But Eden doesn’t fit with Ruth and Rebecca. Instead, Eden first catches on as a girls’ name in the late 1960s and 70s – credit to actress Barbara Eden, star of I Dream of Jeannie, maybe? The tie to the Garden of Eden is obvious, but it also brings to mind traditional girls’ names like Edith, as well as tailored favorites of recent years from Lauren to Taylor to Morgan. Call it a modern meaningful with an upbeat sound.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Elise
Current US popularity rank: #166
From Beethoven to The Cure, Elise has featured in many a musical composition. Originally a short form of Elizabeth, Elise has slowly inched into wider use since the 1980s. Today it feels sophisticated and spare, the kind of name that has always been around – but never been so dramatically popular that it’s tied to a decade.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Eliza
Current US popularity rank: #174
From My Fair Lady to Hamilton, Eliza carries a musical theater pedigree. Like Elise, Eliza started out as a short form of the enduring Elizabeth. (Mrs. Alexander Hamilton, in fact, was named Elizabeth.) Today it feels like an independent name, and that zippy ‘z’ makes it at home in the age of Olivia and Zoe. Despite years of steady increases in use, the vivacious name remains uncommon enough that it belongs with the sweet spot girl names.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Esther
Current US popularity rank: #183
Until recently, Esther might have belonged with the newly-ready-for-revival camp. But that seems unfair, too. After all, Esther ranked in the US Top 100 into the 1930s. Today, the name picks up on several trends. It combines a nature name meaning (star), Old Testament baby name status, and that stylish -r ending shared by Harper and Piper. Esther could substitute for equally substantial and storied girls’ names like Abigail or Evelyn.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Fiona
Current US popularity rank: #211
Switch around the sounds in chart-topping Sophia, and you’ll nearly arrive at Fiona. A literary Scottish invention, Fiona became famous to an entire generation as the ogre-princess in Shrek, voiced by Cameron Diaz. Despite sounding very much like a traditional name, Fiona first appeared in the US Top 1000 in the 1990s – very recent history! Shameless and Nurse Jackie have named characters Fiona, but the original famous Fiona might be Brigadoon’s time-warped daughter, first introduced by the 1947 Broadway musical, and later by the 1954 film. Perhaps that explains why fair Fiona feels so traditional
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Genevieve
Current US popularity rank: #188
The patron saint of Paris, Genevieve combines sophistication with a sprightly sound. Nickname-rich and almost considered a classic, this name makes a great substitute for Madeline or a sister to Charlotte. French names for girls always fare well in the US, and yet Genevieve isn’t quite the runaway success you might expect. It has quietly climbed the charts over the last dozen years. But that’s a far cry from the 1910s, when it ranked in the Top 100. Take it as proof that the name will stand the test of time.
Read more about Genevieve here.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Hadley
Current US popularity rank: #108
Quick: give me a literary surname name that begins with H, and was boosted by a recent bestseller. Nope, I’m not thinking of Harper. Instead, Hadley comes from The Paris Wife, a fictionalized account of Ernest and Hadley Hemingway’s life in Europe. The first Mrs. Hemingway was born Elizabeth Hadley Richardson, but known by her middle. Hadley fits neatly into our Hailey-Harlow moment, an H surname name for a girl with a link to an intriguing part of literary history.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Helena
Current US popularity rank: #518
If Helena comes with a flaw, it’s pronunciation. I’ve counted three distinct possibilities: hel AYN ah, hel en UH, and heh LEEN uh. I favor the first, but that’s just preference. Plenty of subtle distinctions exist, too. And yet, Helena belongs with sweet spot girl names. It feels as sophisticated as Sophia and as strong as Victoria. Instead, it’s Elena that’s on the rise. It misses out on sweet spot status because of the many alternate spellings in use. Helena remains nicely uncommon, but known to all.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Jane
Current US popularity rank: #279
Jane feels like an every-girl name, but it’s not. You’re more likely to meet a Skylar or a Brooklyn. Spare and frills-free Jane combines the sensibility of modern unisex names like Kai with the classic status of Eleanor. Janie makes for a cute nickname, right at home on the playground with Sadie and Ellie. Plus, what girl wouldn’t like to share her given name with Jane Austen? Nineteenth century activist Jane Addams and world-renowned scientist Jane Goodall serve as more examples of women of accomplishment.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Josephine
Current US popularity rank: #114
Joseph belongs with the boys’ names never out of style. But Josephine has long been less popular in the US. Like Genevieve, it ranked in the Top 100 in the early twentieth century, but is only now being rediscovered. Chock full of nicknames, Josephine could appeal to parents who love Eleanor, or maybe families after a formal name for Josie or Jo. Another bonus? Little Women’s strong-willed March sister Jo was born Josephine, too.
Read more about Josephine here.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Kate
Current US popularity rank: #231
Call Katherine a classic, and Kaitlyn a 1990s favorite. Where does that leave Kate? With the sweet spot girl names, of course! Sure, you’ll have to answer “is it short for …” But that’s a small hassle compared to spelling Caitlin/Katelyn/Catelynn every time. Kate feels retro – think Cole Porter music Kiss Me, Kate – and powerful – think Kate Middleton, or maybe Katharine Hepburn – often known as Kate. (The Connecticut performing arts center named for Ms. Hepburn is called The Kate.) Kate could be a sister for Lucy or Blair, a name that spans styles effortlessly.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Lena
Current US popularity rank: #276
Lena might be short for a longer name ending with those sounds, but really, this one stands on its own. Sleek and stylish, and beautifully portable across language barriers, Lena is familiar throughout Europe. Pick your famous Lena: Dunham if you’re a Girls fan, Horne if you’re more into the legendary singer. Lena sounds like a perfect substitute for Ava, a simple, straightforward choice with a dash of glam.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Lyric
Current US popularity rank: #281
Musical baby names continue to fare well, with Aria at the top of the list. Lyric will surprise the grandparents, but the name has ranked in the US Top 1000 since 1995, the year after a young Jada Pinkett Smith wore the name in the movie Jason’s Lyric. Nothing sounds quite like this word-name, one of the reasons it belongs with sweet spot girl names. Another reason? Lyric has ranked in the Top 500 for nearly a decade, slowly becoming familiar, without ever feeling as trendy as Cadence or Aria.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Margaret
Current US popularity rank: #139
Margaret belongs with the venerable classics, every bit as buttoned-up as Elizabeth, Eleanor, or Katherine. And yet it hits the sweet spot because it remains far less common than any of those three traditional favorites. Odds are good that you know a Margaret, and that’s she’s well out of preschool. That’s why this one makes the sweet spot girl names list. Can you imagine a name more immediately recognized – and yet so seldom heard? With nicknames galore – including fellow sweet spot name Daisy – Margaret makes for a shape-shifting name.
Read more about Margaret here.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Mary
Current US popularity rank: #127
Stay with me here. As with Margaret, you know a few Marys. But chances are that those Marys are older. Probably much older, like 40-something plus. After reigning as the top name for girls in the US for decades, parents cooled to naming their daughters Mary during the 1970s, and the trend continued. Mary left the US Top 100 after 2008. That’s precisely why Mary belongs with sweet spot girl names. In a sea of parents debating if Madelyn is more distinctive than Bella, it’s actually Mary that stands out as fresh and new.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Molly
Current US popularity rank: #157
Ask most people if Molly is a nickname for Mary, and you’ll be met with a blank stare. We see them as distinct names today, but in fact, Molly – and Polly – started out as diminutives for that oh-so-common name. Count Molly with Daisy – a name sometimes dismissed as too cute, but quite able to stand the test of time. One reason for this name’s capable image? The Unsinkable Molly Brown – born Margaret – a Titanic survivor who captained a lifeboat to rescue others. Or so the story the goes – it’s become a Broadway musical, blurring the line between truth and good storytelling. Speaking of stories, legend tells of fearless Molly Pitcher, who helped her husband load the canons during the American Revolution. And an entire generation grew up with Molly Ringwald. The name has fallen slightly in recent years, but retains all of that history.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Quinn
Current US popularity rank: #79
The 1990s gave us two female Quinns. First came Dr. Quinn, Medicine Woman. In this case, Quinn sat in the familiar surname place. It’s every bit as Irish as Riley or Kelly or plenty of other surnames that have migrated to the first spot. Then along came MTV’s animated Daria, with the vapid, fashion-obsessed Quinn. Not a promising role model, and yet, the 1990s pushed Quinn from a surname-used-for-boys to unisex. Then came Glee’s Quinn Fabray, and the name accelerated for girls. Today it feels spare, no-nonsense, and yet still distinctive even as it climbs into the Top 100. Credit to the letter Q.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Ruby
Current US popularity rank: #71
Ruby sparkles, and yet feels far less flashy than Diamond or even Emerald. Maybe it’s because Ruby reminds us of so my favorites for girls, from Lucy to Ruth. Or maybe it’s songs featuring this name, remembered from the radio – Neil Diamond and Kenny Rogers, or, more recently, Rancid’s “Ruby Soho” and the Kaiser Chief’s “Ruby.” An early twentieth century favorite, vintage Ruby has made a comeback, without being absolutely everywhere. Maybe that’s because equally vibrant color name Scarlett has caught on, or maybe it’s just plain chance. Either way, Ruby remains with the sweet spot girl names.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Tessa
Current US popularity rank: #229
Not so long ago, Theresa reigned as a traditional, steadily used name for girls in the US. But lately it’s become rare, while Tessa – originally a diminutive – has caught on. In an Emma-Stella world, Tessa feels complete. And while it debuted in the US Top 1000 in the mid-1960s, it feels vintage. After all, Tessa and Tess aren’t new as nicknames. That makes this name traditional and innovative, the kind of name you might have heard in the nineteenth century, but wouldn’t find on a birth certificate until more recent years. That contrast helps put Tessa with the sweet spot girl names.
I’ve yet to write a post about Tessa! But check back, and I’ll update this when Tessa is complete.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Valerie
Current US Popularity rank: #160
Valerie reached the US Top 100 way back in the 1950s and stayed there most years through the 1980s. Since then, the name has never left the US Top 200. The Monkees, the Zutons, Amy Winehouse, Steve Winwood, and Material Issue have all used the name in songs. Maybe that’s why it feels pop culture current in so many decades. Or maybe it’s that enduring three-syllable, ends-in-ie construction that puts Valerie on the same lists as Kimberly and Avery. Valerie feels slightly surprising for a daughter born today, and yet it sounds right at home on a playground today.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Vera
Current US popularity rank: #308
Vera comes from the Russian word meaning faith, but it’s easy to mistake it for the Latin verus – truth. Either way, the meaning appeals. The sound, too, takes the best of Emma and Cora and mixes in the V of Evelyn and Ava. It’s a winning formula, and Vera’s vintage style bolsters the name even further. After hibernating outside of the Top 1000 for much of the 1980s, 90s, and early 2000s, Vera has staged a quiet, steady comeback.
Sweet Spot Girl Names: Willa
Current US popularity rank: #463
Ella, Stella, Bella. We love an -lla name, so why not Willa? A feminine form of the evergreen William, Willa seems simpler than regal Wilhelmina. Willa claims the literary pedigree of Willa Cather, and a sensible, even homespun style that feels right at home with recent Top 100 favorites like Hannah and Emily. The fact that Willa has yet to become truly, wildly popular makes this a great choice for families after something just so slightly different. It’s a substitute for Emma, a sister for Hazel or Grace.
Would you consider any of these sweet spot girl names? Are there others you’d add to the list?
Good list! lot’s of names I have a “sweet spot” for are on there, I quite like Joan Nn Joanie I think that could be a sweet spot name. Look forward to the boy list.
Love this list and love it even more that my little girls name (20 months now) Tessa is on it. I know we picked it because it wasn’t a name we’ve heard a lot, easy to learn how to say and spell, and the fact that it sounds good both yelling it in a good way and a disciplinary way.
I love this list! Please do one for boys too!
I will, L. – thank you!
Great list, Abby! Looking forward to seeing your posts on Anna and Tessa.
Ha! My three girls are Adaline, Cate, and Esther! Esther’s mn is Margaret, and I have two nieces: Anna and Molly. We were also thinking of Daisy and Tessa when we were expecting Esther. What a list!
This is a beautiful list. I love so many of these names. What about Naomi? Naomi belongs on this list!
Oh – Naomi *totally* fits!
I’d definitely put my Susannah in this category. Everything I read on this name before she was born had it as a name everyone seemed to like but no-one seemed to use. And the last four years of usage has confirmed that to be the case.
Wow, this definitely varies depending on your location! Caroline is a top 10 name in my state, and Anna and Mary are at #19 and #21 respectively. I hear them all the time as the first half of double names.
I love so many names on this list! Anna is my favorite and I can’t wait for her to be Name of the Day!
This list truly surprised me – it had so many of my favorites, and made me reconsider new names too! There are two little girls in my family named Caroline and Genevieve, and those names are darling. Vera & Kate are in my personal top three, but I also love Alice, Anna, Adelaide, Fiona, and Mary!!!! Mary is such a classic and so rare now too.
Do you think Quinn has gone to the girls or can a boy still wear it well?
I think it still works for a boy.
In general, I think parents are MUCH more likely to shrug off the worries about a name going girl today than they were 20 years ago. We’ve had a generation of girl Jordans and boy Jordans, Tylers and Taylors, Peytons and Charlies, Alexes and Sams. Now names like Rowan, River, and Remy feel likely to stay unisex long-term.
Quinn could easily be a boy, and I doubt there would be much drama about it. It sounds and feels masculine, and over 1,000 boys were named Quinn last year. There were over 3,600 girls named Quinn, so it’s more common for girls – but those are still big numbers for a boys’ name.
I have a daughter Quinn and am considering Blair for our next daughter – thoughts?
I really like those together. Tailored, almost unisex but far more likely to be used for girls, and similar in length and feel but very different in sound. I think they’re perfection together!
My favorite on this list is Mary. I have such a soft spot for that name. There’s a sweet little preschool neighbor of mine who’s called Mary. I’m sure she won’t meet many others her age!