Name Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.
We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!
K writes:
For as long as I can remember, I have loved the longest girl names. When I read that Queen Victoria’s first name was Alexandrina, I thought that’s what I would name my daughter. My best friend growing up was Nicole “Nikki” and I loved the idea of longer names, like Nicolina and Nicoletta. Other names I really liked were Cassandra, Gabriella, and Esmeralda.
We have a son named Sebastian Elijah, and we’re expecting a daughter in December. My partner is pretty indifferent about names, though he’ll sometimes surprise me by disliking a name I really love. (He shot down Elizabella, because he went to school with a mean girl named Eliza.)
The problem is that I feel like all the names I loved for all those years don’t seem like the right choice for my daughter now. Does that even make sense? I still like them, but they’re not her name. My mom keeps suggesting Olivia and Isabella, and while I think they’re pretty, I feel like I hear them a lot.
Help!
Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.
Abby replies:
Congratulations on your new daughter, K!
I think I know exactly what you’re experiencing. If you start dreaming of names in 2005, but aren’t actually naming children until 2015, a lot can happen. Every year that passes increases those changes, so if you made your first “names for my future children” list in fifth grade, well … chances are you’ve heard an awful lot of names between then and now!
Names come in cycles. The most popular choices of 1999 sound they’re from another century in more ways than one.
But the style you’re describing – elaborate girls’ names, rooted in tradition, but with a little bit of a twist? They’re enduring.
It’s just a question of finding some fresh ideas!
LONG GIRL NAMES
ANTONELLA (#542)
Antonia is long, but Antonella turns it up to eleven. It sounds a little bit like Isabella, but is far less popular.
COSIMA (unranked)
An Italian name meaning order, Cosima is related to another word for the universe – cosmos.
ISADORA (unranked)
A logical alternative to chart-topping Isabella, it brings to mind legendary dancer Isadora Duncan.
MAGNOLIA (#240)
A floral name far more elaborate than Lily or Rose, but just as wearable.
OPHELIA (#387)
A literary name from Shakespeare, long and elaborate Ophelia follows Olivia up the charts.
PERSEPHONE (#924)
Most of your favorites seem to end with a, but mythological Persephone is one long, elaborate girls’ name with a slightly different sound.
SERAPHINA (unranked)
Fiery Seraphina might be too close to Sebastian if you’re avoiding an initials repeat. But it’s also a great choice for underused girl names.
VIVIANA (#421)
Vivian is far more popular, but the Italian Viviana takes this tailored name in a romantic direction.
My favorite for you is Antonella. It sounds like a logical successor to Alexandrina, with the -ella sound you’ve appreciated in Gabriella and Isabella, too.
If not Antonella, maybe Ophelia? Parents sometimes dismiss it because it lacks an easy, obvious nickname. But it sounds like that’s not a drawback for you.
And – oh – middle names! Antonella Rosalie, maybe? Or Ophelia Lucienne?
Readers, what would you suggest for Sebastian Elijah’s sister?
I came up with a lot of double names with added endings to bulk up the frills. What do you think of:
Adrianette
Georgianna
Ivelisse( from another of Abby’s blog posts)
Alexandrina
Augustina
Valeria Maria
Jocylena(like Jocelyn with Lena)
Zillah
Sybalise(Sybil with Lise)
Yvette
Estella
Elianna
Gracelyn
Varicella
Brynlee
Antionette
Please note- Adrianette, Georgianna, Ivelisse, Alexandrina, Augustina, Zillah, Yvette, Estella, Elianna, Gracelyn, Varicella, Brynlee, and Antionette are all official names while the rest of meshed and blended bits of other super girly names. Tell me what you think and best of luck!
Congratulations!
Aureliana
Coretta
Analisa
Benadetta
Bronwyn
Willemina
Emmanuelle
Valeria
Ilaria
Cassiopeia
Andromeda
Kassiani (cass-ee-ah-NEE)
Perenelle
Zephyrine, Zephyrina
I love long names:
Cordelia
Mariana
Lucinda
Carolina
Catalina
Clarissa
Clementine
Raphaela/Rafaela
Madeleine
Marielle
Alannah
Gabriella
Aurelia
Luciana
Mireille
Adelia, Anastasia, Aurelia, Azalea, Callandra, Christabel, Christiana, Coraline, Eliora, Francesca, Georgiana, Ilaria, Jacqetta, Leandra, Leonella, Lucinda, Luella, Magdalena, Melita, Millicent, Ornela, Rosalie, Sylvana, Theresia, Victorine, Zenaida.
I wonder if you would like Colette? Not long but similar to Nicole while more modern sounding. Or Natasha? Octavia, Fernanda, Felicity. Wilhelmina. Penelope sounds like a beautiful sister name to Sebastian. Priscilla. Theodora.
Audrina
Adrianna
Emmeline/Emmelina
Julianna/Guilianna
Mariella
Alessandra
So many great suggestions here. I second Anastasia that someone else suggested. Sebastian and Anastasia – wow wow! I also love the name Isadora.
Not sure if another S name is an option but I’ll throw out on of my husbands favourites – Simonetta. A beautiful Italian name.
Others:
Antoinette
Celestina
Lavinia
Cordelia
Graciela
Ginevra
Giovanna
There is also Alexandria which is similar to Alexandrina.
How about
Aurora
Anastasia
Eloisa
Cataleya
Evangelina
Clarissa or Larissa
Angelica
Esmeralda
Antonina or Antonietta
Josephina
Rosalia or Rosalinda
Alessandra or Alessia
Philomena
Emmanuella or Emmanuelle
Marceline or Marcelina
Viridiana
Celestina
Florencia
Apollonia
Raphaella or Raffaella
Cristiana
Donatella
Cassiopeia
Clementine or Clementina
Aureliana
Caledonia
Cleopatra