When it comes to pop culture, our memories our short. As an MTV-addicted seventh grader, I was stunned to discover that some of the musicians’ careers started back when my parents were still cool. Years later, my baby brother – he’s eleven years younger – had a similar reaction when he discovered that, say, Lenny Kravitz had been around for me to play on cassette tapes my senior year. (His adolescence started with CDs, and, of course, that all seems terribly quaint now.)
Don’t get me started on what it’s like to have a teenager. 1991 might as well be ancient history, and they’re baffled by the idea of a world without smartphones and the internet and Amazon Prime.
The world always changes. Way back circa 500 BC, the Greek philosopher Heraclitus said, “All things flow, nothing abides. You cannot step into the same river twice, for the waters are continually flowing on. Nothing is permanent except change.”
And yet, we often behave as if our perceptions of given names are fixed and rigid. In the 70s, Alice was a hard-working diner waitress and the sensible housekeeper to the Brady clan. (Back when six kids in one house made for a sitcom plot.) Arthur was much better known as the Fonz, the leather-jacket clad, motorcycle-riding cool guy living above the Cunnighams’ garage in the Milwaukee ‘burbs.
But time marches on, and neither of those names are defined by their pop culture characters. I’d wager that my kids don’t recognize them at all.
Despite this, I’ve heard parents – or grandparents – reject names because of similar associations.
So what’s the statute of limitations on a pop culture reference?
I’d love to hear your thoughts as I mull this over.
- Ever noticed there are lots of baby names beginning with A? Maybe there have always been more names beginning with A …
- Surprisingly common names from the Middle Ages, because not everyone was named Mary or John – not by a long chalk!
- Along the same lines: no one talk about these vintage nickname names, but choices like Flossie and Lula were once relatively popular – and could feel stylish again today.
- Would you speak up if your colleague announced the birth of her daughter Pheobe? And then continued to use the spelling? Is it a kindness or an over-step?
- Kind of hoping they stick with Louise for their daughter.
- A vlog about truly gender neutral names. It’s a category that just keeps on growing, and I think that’s a good thing.
- Thinking about virtue names this week. Find a few of my favorite modern ones here.
- Have you seen the next Fantastic Beasts movie yet? Find your Wizarding World name here.
That’s all for this week! As always, thank you for reading – and have a great week!
She should stick with Louise or Louisa or Lois or something related — not only does it remind her of Lake Louise, but also, Louise is derived from Ludwig (“Warrior”) and her baby was most certainly a warrior to come through it all after the scare!
That is an excellent point, Diana!