Sunday Summary: Gift Giving

For many of us, ’tis the season to give gifts.

Gift giving isn’t really my thing. I handle it – every year – with a spreadsheet, budget, and dose of ruthless efficiency. (If I finish up in November then I can spend time doing holiday things I truly enjoy during December.)

But I do love those moments when gift-giving feels right. When a mix of generosity and love and awareness of what matters informs a gift.

That’s not exactly going to happen with the LOL dolls I sent my nieces.

It might happen with your child’s name, though.

Think of a name as the first gift you give your child. It’s not a baby name; it’s meant for a lifetime’s worth of wear.

And, like the best gifts, it reflects what matters most. Your child is a stranger, so it’s not possible to reflect on their specific interests and qualities. But it’s helpful to think about your values and priorities. The right name isn’t necessarily this year’s hottest, must-have item. It’s chosen for different reasons, for significance that will endure.

That’s something that can translate to a truly unforgettable gift, and a great name for your child, too!

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Of course, there are some amazing names that mean gift. If you want to be literal about it.

Wishing every joy to Filipa of Nomes e mais nomes on the birth of Caetana! Caetana joins big sister Frederica. And if you’re not already following Nomes e mais nomes, well, what are you waiting for? It’s a great chance to brush up your Portuguese!

Bree profiled Carrick this week. Proof that there are always new names to discover. I’ve never heard it used as a first, but I think it works so well. Maybe because I’m wild about the idea of names that shorten to Cary for our boys. (Carter, Carson, Carsten … maybe even Caradoc?)

On a similar note, I agree with Clare. Corran would be a great choice for a son.

Everything about this story is amazing. Names like Elvia and Veva and such are only the smallest part!