Name Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.
We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!
My husband and I are looking for a name for a boy, estimated to arrive in the fall. We had a girl name all set, but are having a much harder time with boys’ names, as seems so often to be the case!
We are definitely looking for something less common, maybe in the lower half of the top 1000.
Names we like: Rex, Gideon, Atlas (seems like it wouldn’t be great for an adult man), and Wyatt (too common for us). We also like Huck as a nickname, but would want the baby to have a more formal name and don’t super love Henry (also so common right now!) or Hugo.
I love Zeke (just Zeke) but my husband is only into it if we use Ezekiel, which I don’t really dig. I really like masculine/western/hellraiser-y names like West, Wilder, Wade, Forrest, etc, but he doesn’t like any of those. We like Irish names quite a bit, but no Irish or Gaelic boys names have stood out to us much, although I love Eamon (he doesn’t).
My husband likes Rhett and Knox, but both of those don’t seem quite right. He also likes Biblical names like Josiah and Levi.
Middle name will likely be Valentine and the last name is a Mc name.
Any suggestions you can give us are much appreciated!
Please read on for my response, and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.
Dear Carrie –
Congratulations on your new son!
Let’s start with the bad news. If you’re set on avoiding Top 500 names, then nearly every name on your current list is pretty much out. At #609, Rex is rarest, with Forrest at #596 and Wilder at #573. West doesn’t make the current Top 1000 list, but Weston sits just outside the Top 100.
Or maybe it doesn’t matter at all, because so far? You’re not agreeing on any of these.
Time to start fresh.
Let’s look at names that rank at #400 or higher, but still feel current. Since he shot down Wilder but likes Knox, and you’re willing to consider Gideon but not Ezekiel, I suspect style isn’t exactly the challenge. It’s about finding a name that speaks to you both.
I’m sticking with mostly preppy hellraiser names, with a few Gaelic picks mixed in.
Briggs – One thing that strikes me: your list ranges from the super short (Rex) to the longer (Gideon, Ezekiel). I wonder if you might like a name like Briggs? It’s short, but still has an awful lot of sound. I might have suggested Brooks, but it’s hovering near the Top 200. Briggs has the same rugged sensibility, but is less common. It ranked #615 as of 2017.
Flynn – There are certain names that just sound like action hero names. Jack is a go-to, whether we’re talking about Jack Bauer, Jack Reacher, or Jack Sparrow. I think Flynn belongs in this camp. At #756, it remains far less common than Jack (or Finn!) but carries the same spirit.
Heath – Heath caught on in the mid-1960s, thanks to a wildly successful television Western called The Big Valley. (No, really. It launched the careers of Linda Evans and Lee Majors.) It peaked in the 1970s, around the same time Heather made the girls’ Top Ten. And yet, Heath was never anywhere near that popular – the highest it reached was around #180ish. Today, it’s a relatively unknown #885. This makes me think that Heath could wear well today. Everyone knows it, but nobody is using it! It reminds me of Rex and Zeke – short name, big sound.
Huxley – I’m wondering if this is exactly the name you’re looking for? Huxley seems like a natural to shorten to Huck, maybe even more than Henry or Hugo. (Though those work, too.) At #790, it’s pretty unusual. But it sounds like a strong, modern name for a son.
Thatcher – If Wilder is a little too – well – wild, might Thatcher work? It shares the same general style, but feels a little bit more gentle. Thatcher ranked #847 last year. Some fret that it’s too tied up with Margaret Thatcher, but I know plenty of Reagans who weren’t named after the 40th President, so I think Thatcher should be fair game.
Torin – Torin doesn’t quite sound like what it is – an Irish name. Instead, it feels a little bit nouveau and invented, a sort of Soren-Corin spin-off. But it’s handsome, with a great meaning – chief. And it doesn’t even crack the current US Top 1000, so that satisfies your concerns about popularity.
Vaughn – At a mere #962, Vaughn barely makes the current Top 1000. But it’s frequently heard as a surname, which makes it a little easier to spell.
Walton – Like Thatcher, Walton represents a gentler alternative to Wilder. It sounds right at home in the great outdoors, but I can imagine Walton as a poet or scientist, too. Despite seeming like the name ought to be fairly common, Walton hasn’t appeared in the US Top 1000 for well over fifty years.
Overall, my top suggestion is Huxley. It seems like a logical formal name for Huck, plus it reminds me of many of the names on your list. If not, Huxley, I’m wondering if Torin might be the right choice? It’s a style cousin to many of the names you’re considering, but with a little of Eamon’s Gaelic charm, too.
Readers, what would you suggest to Carrie for her son?
Abby has some great suggestions! I’ve been driving my kids to school down Huxley street for years, and I always thought it would make a cute name with Huck as a nn. 🙂
Some more options–
Sawyer- Sawyer Valentine Mc-
Seamus with possible nn shay”
Rustle nn Rus or Rusty
Congrats on your baby boy!!
Lots of great ideas! Here’s one more.
A rare bible “Z” name that I think is super masculine and full of spirit: Zadok
Jeralee Conrad says
Jean C. says
I like Huxley with the nn Huck quite a bit.
I also wonder if Nash or Brooks might fit the bill? Maybe Bridger? Or my favorite western boys names: Maverick and Renegade.
Ezra, Silas or Jude also feel like they might work, with Jude being my favorite, or Judah is even more unique. Or Thaddeus!
So I like Brock for you. – has the end sound of Huck
Brock Valentine Mc
I immediately thought of Tobin (and I see someone else did too!). It’s an English surname derived from Tobias. It’s not in the top 1000, which is surprising because it seems to fit in so well with trendy names.
Less common and short boy names:
I love Thatcher. I think Flynn fits your description too if you aren’t bothered by the similarity to Finn.
I wanted to suggest two that popped into my my mind:
I just love West and Zeke, btw.
Can i just say, I LOVE Valentine as a middle for your son!
I love the suggestion of Huxley to get you to Huck. How about just Hutch? Although it sounds like he’s leaning to longer / more recognizable. How about Marshall nn March (I do love alliteration!)? It’s probably too popular for you, but you might want to ditch that preference, since your faves are all appearing in the lower half of the Top 1000 anyways?
But if the numbers are your guide, how about these alternates to your lists:
Instead of Rex – Dex?
Instead of Wyatt/Rhett – Garnet?
Instead of Hugo – Viggo?
Instead of Eamon – Amos?
Instead of Knox – Fox?
Instead of Josiah – Obadiah? (some cool nicknames could come from that lovely mouthful)
Instead of Levi – Avi?
Instead of Ezekiel to get to Zeke – Zedekias (could also get you to Dex)
Instead of Henry to get to Huck – Hendrick?
Julie G says
Since you have 2 N’s in your chosen middle, to my ear, it sounds better to avoid an an N in your first name. I like:
Davis Valentine McWhatever
Shaw Valentine McWhatever
When you said you love Zeke and also love western sounding names Like Wyatt, Wilder, West, Rhett, and Knox I immediately thought of Zane. It’s similar to Zeke but also western sounding plus it’s one syllable which a lot of other names on your list are as well
Zane Valentine Mc_____
really cool, really handsome, and the whole name has a perfect balance of sounding like a bit of a hell raiser but also sounding grown up enough to be taken seriously
The Mrs. says
Do you like:
Oxford? It’s got some edge but is obviously buttoned down.
Packard? Goes a shade more Wild West.
Enoch? As biblical as Ezekiel.
Rhodes? Another cowboy-esque moniker.
Bence? Same idea.
Floyd? Comes with golden gloves but is masculine and familiar without being popular.
Winston? Cowboy or undercover cop with a WINning nickname.
Heywood? He practically comes in a saddle.