Name Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.
We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!
Aimee writes:
My husband and I are (finally) expecting what will almost certainly be our only child, a daughter.
We haven’t talked about names in a long time. Now we are at 32 weeks and realize it’s time!
Happily, we almost agree on a name. My mom’s maiden name was Jamison, and she was the last in her family, so the name ended with her. My husband’s dad passed away recently, and his name was James “Jim.” And my husband is named for his dad, so he’s James “Jay.”
If this baby was a boy, we’d have named him James, and called him James.
But she’s a girl! We don’t like either of the options so far:
- Jamie/Jaime – Because we’d be Jay, Aimee, and Jamie. Just no.
- James as a middle name – Maybe … but we don’t really like any first name enough to make this feel like a better choice. Our list so far is Ava, Mila, Eliza, Penelope, Kyra, Sage, Daisy, and Rose/Rosalie.
I wouldn’t want to name her James, because I worry people would call her Jamie anyway, which is what I really want to avoid. (And I don’t think I’m the kind of person to name a girl Charlie or Ryan anyway.)
My sister keeps joking that we should name her Semaj, which I actually almost like better than Jamie/Jaime, but not really.
What are we missing? Is there a “girl” equivalent to James that I just don’t know?
Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.
Abby replies:
Congratulations!
I completely understand waiting to talk about names. And how lucky that you and your husband are on the same page!
Now the hard part: there’s not really a feminine form of James.
In fact, I think that’s why we tend to use it for girls more readily. (It ranked in the US Top 1000 for girls from 1880 right through 1989.)
But if you’re willing to be creative, I think you do have a few options … without going quite as far as Semaj!
GIRL NAMES INSPIRED BY JAMES
ETTA
Legendary singer Etta James was born Jamesetta Hawkins. This name popped into my head almost immediately, and maybe it resonates that one of her biggest hits is the joyful “At Last.”
GEMMA
Stay with me here. Gemma is the Italian word for jewel, and has a long history as a feminine name. But, way back when, Jem was a go-to nickname for James. (And Jeremy, as in Scout’s brother in To Kill a Mockingbird.) So Gemma – or Jemma – feels like a reasonable feminine form.
GIA
In Italian, James is Giacoma, from the Latin Iacomus. (More on this in a minute.) I think that makes Gia an option.
JACQUELINE
Ask nearly anyone about Jacqueline, and they’d likely say it’s a feminine form of Jack. Or maybe of John, if they’re aware of Jack’s evolution as a short form of John. Except it’s not so. In French, Jacques is James. Think back to Iacomus and it makes much more sense. And so Jacqueline is – strictly speaking – probably the most popular feminine form of James in the US. Except that’s not obvious to anyone.
JAMISON
Here’s an option: name your daughter Jamison. Could it still be reduced to Jamie? Sure. But I’ve met plenty of girls who are Emerson-not-Emmy and Addison-not-Addie. I can also imagine another nickname emerging. Mimi maybe? Or Mia?
JANE
Okay, Jane is a feminine form of John. But if you’re playing off Jay, as in your husband’s nickname, Jane feels like a reasonably choice. Of course, Aimee, Jay, and Janie is also something I can’t say five times fast, so maybe it’s not an improvement.
JAYMA
As in Glee alum Jayma Mays. She was born Jamia, which is another option. But I like the way Jayma merges Jay and the “m” sound of James and Jamison. If this appeals to you, too, so many Jay- names are possibilities: Jayla, Jaycee, Jaylie, Jayda/Jada.
MINA
Here’s another one from the extended James family: if James becomes Giacoma in Italian, then Giacomina is an extended form. It’s Jacomina in Dutch, too, and possibly other European languages that add -mina to feminine names. And so Mina might be an option. I also like the way it picks up on the middle syllable of Jamison.
My favorites are the least expected: Etta, Gemma, Mina. If I were choosing, I like the way Gemma feels somewhat removed from James, but still connected. And you might even name her Gemma James, which feels like the best of all possible worlds. I’d put Mina James a close second.
Congrats on your baby girl! It’s great that you guys already have a perfect name base to start from.
Abby’s suggestion of Jemma / Gemma is so creative! And a great name choice.
I submit:
Jacoby called Coby / Cobie
James is a form of Jacob. Jacoby is another form of Jacob.
@Renee’s suggestion of naming her Jamison and calling her Sunny ☀️ is soooo cute (but also perfectly respectable for an adult name)!
Another PP said James called Jem, like in the past. I like that, too.
Name your daughter Jamison and use nickname of Sunny. That way she’ll be named after everyone in the family with her full name and I think that is cute.
Name her Jamison and call her Sunny or Missy right from the start? That gives her the ultimate version of the honour but distances from your names!
Or a double barrel which I love! Daisy-James or Mila-James, which could also go by DJ or MJ? I know three people with double barrel names – one used LJ in adolescence and college then enjoys her full form in adulthood; one is always full name with her moms side and MJ at her dads; the last dropped the second part of the barrel when she hit double digits, but it was kinda cutesy so I understand.
I think anything with a strong A start or Jay will just end up too close to your names, and the more creative it gets the farther away it gets from
an honour so if I were you I’d stick Jamison or James right up front.
Congrats on your finally baby 🙂
There are somewhat obscure feminine versions of James. Jacques is actually the French equivalent of James or Jacob and Yakov is the Russian, Jakob the Dutch or German, Giacomo an Italian version. So you have Jacqueline or Jacquenetta, which might be shortened to Etta and was a medieval variant. Or Jacobina or Jakomina/Giacomina, which could become Mina. Jamesetta has been used in Scotland. I rather like Jakomina or Giacomina.
I know a James (male) nicknamed Jem so Abby’s suggestion of Gemma but use a J… Jemma. Nn Jem or Jemmi. Similar to Jim.
Possibly…Jamison nn Jem
I also feel Jasmine has many letters from Jamison and James in it. Might be worth considering that name. Nn Jem?
Jade sounds similar to James too
I vote for Jamison in the middle. Eliza Jamison is gorgeous, I like Daisy Jamison too!
Agree with Abby that Jemma feels like a great choice or maybe Jemima called Jem?
I went to school with a female Jamasyn! Probably not your style, but still interesting
My mum, born in England the 50s, is Jane. Her nickname growing up and now has been James – never Janie.
How about Jamesina? it’s not common but it is the closest feminization for James I know.
I am thinking of the shared roots of James and Jacob and wondering if there’s something for you there…the actress Cobie Smulders’ full name is Jacoba – would that appeal? It wouldn’t be recognizably an homage to James for most people, but perhaps the meaning would still be there for you.
What about Amice? Ames is James without the letter J and comes from the name Amice. Amice also is close to Aimee so it’s clearly an honor name.