name help: a sister for Chloe, Hudson, Elise & VeronicaName Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.

We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!

Lauren writes:

We’re expecting our first baby together in 2021! It was a complete surprise, but the best kind of surprise. I’m 43, and we’ve only been together for a year, so to say this was a shock is the understatement of ALL understatements.

This baby – it’s a girl! – will join my 7 year old twins, Chloe and Hudson, plus my husband’s teenage daughters, Veronica and Elise. For this past year, all of the kids have overlapped at our house a lot, but I’m guessing that’s not going to be true for that much longer. (Can I hope?! Oh, the LAUNDRY!)

With everything going on, names kind of fell off our list of things to think about. But the girls brought it up over Christmas, and now we have a list made by all six of us.

And that’s okay! I think it’s kind of great, really. But I’m not sure which of these names sound like they go with our family.

Also, I found this site because we’re not sure what to do about our last name. I’ve always kept my maiden name; my kids have their dads’ last name, the older girls have their mom’s last name hyphenated with my husband’s surname, and my husband has just his original last name. So we already have FOUR surnames in our family. Which is fine, but it makes me wonder what last name to give this baby. So advice on how to choose that would be SO great, too.

Here’s our list of names we all liked (or at least no one said was awful!)

Kinsley, Savannah, Piper, Stella, Naomi, Jewel, Eliza, Lily, Rose, Lily-Rose

Is there another name we’re missing?

Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful comments in the suggestions.

Dear Lauren –

Congratulations on your baby. That is the most wonderful kind of surprise, right?

I wonder if you might want to start by considering your child’s last name. Not because you have to choose that first, but because knowing it will naturally help you narrow down your list. Some firsts just won’t sound as good with certain lasts.

To help puzzle it out, I’m going to insert some generic surnames. Your family consists of:

  • Lauren Smith and David Jones
  • Veronica and Elise Wilson-Jones
  • Chloe and Hudson Miller

That’s a lot of surnames, but the three basic options are: Smith, Jones, and Smith-Jones.

I’m not sure if the surnames you’re working with are that short, but the hyphenated name will inevitably be longer. A longer surname probably works best with names like Rose and Miles. And something like Lily-Rose Smith-Jones probably feels cumbersome – a hyphenated first and last.

There’s really no right answer, and no way to have everyone in your household share a single surname. (Which is completely, absolutely fine, and if it makes your Christmas card signature a little longer? So be it.)

I’m going to suggest you hyphenate: Smith-Jones. Partly because I’m curious to see if that feels right. Or if it feels too complicated/cumbersome. Maybe it’s the option to rule out first – maybe because it gives this daughter a surname specific to her point in family history. (If that makes any sense at all!)

Moving on to first names!


Chloe, Veronica, and Elise sound like sisters. They’re familiar, mainstream choices, conventionally feminine but not especially frilly or super-traditional. Looking through your list:

  • I’m guessing you’ve already ruled out Eliza because it’s much too close to Elise.
  • Jewel and Lily-Rose seem a little too different compared to your girls’ names.
  • Kinsley isn’t quite the same style – it’s more modern surname.
  • Piper, too, feels a little more like a surname. But because it’s more popular, I think it might work.
  • Likewise, Savannah, Stella, Naomi, Lily, and Rose all seem very wearable.

If we narrow the list to Piper, Savannah, Stella, Naomi, Lily, and Rose, my vote goes to Stella. I like the vintage sound and style, plus it’s shorter. And while I can imagine any of these six names working well, Stella just seems like it locks into place.

Plus, you brainstormed names over Christmas, and Stella means star – so maybe that part of the story is swaying my opinion, too?

I’m not sure you’re missing any names, really. If I were starting from scratch with Veronica, Elise, Chloe, and Hudson, I might suggest:

GEMMA – A more mainstream alternative to Jewel, with the same meaning.

GENEVIEVE – A traditional name that isn’t heard too often, though if you opt for a longer surname, it might feel like a bit too much.

IRIS – A flower name a little less common than Lily and Rose, and every bit as lovely.

JOSIE – Midway between Lily and Rose, sound-wise.

MAREN – A little more tailored, like Piper, but closer to a given name than a surname.

I’m not sure any of these tops Stella. You haven’t mentioned middle names, but if that’s up for discussion, Stella Kinsley could be great together.

Readers, what would you suggest for a sister for Chloe, Hudson, Veronica, and Elise?

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What do you think?


  1. I notice most of the names of your older kids are quite French? Chloe and Elise very much so, Veronica is similar to Veronique and I feel like I’ve seen French Veronicas? Hudson is the outlier there but it reminds me of the Hudson Bay company and French Canada? So I wonder if a French name would tie everything together? Of your existing list Stella or Naomi would tie in – or Margot, Sylvie, Juliet/tte, Amelie?

  2. I vote for Stella, Naomi, or Rose – all beautiful and great matches with your family. I also think Rosalie would be beautiful if you want something a little more unique! And I would do whatever you want with last name – if hyphenating feels fair go for it! If you don’t care – maybe just use Dad’s last name? Or yours? Whichever you like more?

  3. Hyphenate your maiden name with the dad’s surname. Though, for what it’s worth, most of the people I have encountered with long hyphenated last names usually use just one of them and usually the dad’s name.

  4. Re surname: if you end up just using Dad’s surname, I like the idea of using your maiden name in the middle name spot. Otherwise, I think hyphenate them both or just use yours as you’re the only surname not currently represented by any of the children.

    And I agree with Abby that Stella is the best choice from your list. I also like Naomi and Lily. I do love Piper but don’t think it’s the best match stylistically. Gemma is a great suggestion as well.

    My personal preference is to choose something that complements but that doesn’t repeat an initial.

    A few additional suggestions:

    Tess or Tessa

  5. For last name, may I suggest mom’s maiden name “Smith”? Just Smith. Both dads’ names are well represented already. Just a thought.

    My first thought with Chloe, Hudson, Veronica, and Elise was Harper, with Piper if you didn’t want to repeat an initial. I also like Savannah from you list because it seems to bridge the gap between Chloe/Elise and Veronica. Since you mentioned Eliza, Angelica or Angelina would also bridge the gap.

    I think any of the names you mentioned would be lovely. Other suggestions that seem to go with your tailored girl name style: Audrey, Margot, Sophie/Sophia, Holly, Willow, Juno.

    Good luck!

  6. What about Penelope?

    Penelope is historic yet fresh much like your other girls names, so I think it matches well in style. I like that it has four syllables like Veronica to balance out the two syllables of Elise and Chloe. I am personally a huge fan of shared letters among sibling names. To me, it makes the names hang together better without being too matchy. In this case, Penelope shares the l and e of Elsie and Chloe, plus the o and n of Hudson and Veronica. It weaves both subsets together nicely both in sound and style. Piper could be a nickname so you are sticking with the kids’ list, or Posey or Nell or Lola if she/you prefer.

    Elise, Veronica, Chloe, Hudson and Penelope