Name Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.
We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!
I am expecting a baby girl in October. She will join two sisters: Maya Charlotte (pronounced My-a) and Genevieve Rose, nickname Evie.
Naming Maya was easy: my husband and I both love the fact that it’s such a multicultural name and is also timeless.
Naming my second daughter was a minefield. My preference was Miriam, after my grandmother. But it is against Jewish custom to re-use the name of a close relative while that person is still alive. No other name seemed right. We initially chose Phoebe, but ultimately settled on Genevieve “Evie.” We use Miriam as her Hebrew name, for cultural celebrations, but it does not appear on her birth certificate. It took a while to get used to it, but it now suits my daughter well and I’m happy with her name.
For this daughter, we would like a name that I love the sound of, and that fits with Maya and Genevieve. Ideally something classic but also distinctive. A great nickname would be a bonus for a three syllable name, but not needed for one/two syllable names. I like both long and short names.
In addition to Miriam, our current shortlist (in no particular order) is Margot, Eleanor, Leonora, Tahlia, Clara, Harriet, Ada, Audrey, and Lucinda. I also love Eugenie and Emmanuelle, both of which have family significance, but feel they are maybe a bit unusable/too out there. I also love Edith but think Edie is too close to Evie.
Quite a few other names we like are ‘off limits’ due to close family members with these names: Naomi, Thea, Estelle, Zoe, Sophie/Sophia, Rebecca, Alice, Lilianne.
We like Ruth or Simone as middle names, or just something that fits well/sounds nice with first name and surname, and sibling names.
Any advice, including preferred options from the list above, additional suggestions and/or suggested first/middle name combinations would be welcome.
Please read on for my response, and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.
Dear Natalie –
Congratulations on your third daughter!
It sounds like you know your style. Classic but distinctive. Not too out-there.
The only problem? An awful lot of names fit into that category!
You’ve ruled out Eugenie and Emmanuelle because they’re too different. Lucinda, Leonora, Tahlia, and Harriet also fall outside of the current US Top 1000. On the other hand, Eleanor, Clara, and Audrey all fall within the current Top 100. So maybe they go too far in the other direction?
Miriam could be perfect, except it sounds like it’s already in use by your middle daughter – if not daily, then at least on some occasions of significance.
That leaves Margot and Ada. I think they both work beautifully – Maya, Evie, and Margot; Maya, Evie, and Ada.
Both seem like equally good options. I’d give a slight edge to Margot, as I think it hits the vintage-cred, modern-vibe sweet spot perfectly.
If not Ada or Margot, how about:
Colette – Everyone knows this name, but it’s surprisingly rare, currently ranked #533. It reminds me of Emmanuelle and Eugenie, with that same French appeal. But I think it’s very accessible.
Daphne – I almost didn’t suggest Daphne, because it seems awfully close to Phoebe. And yet, it has potential, falling somewhere between short and sweet Maya and the more elaborate Genevieve. At #383, it’s familiar but not common – and nothing else sounds quite like Daphne.
Eliza – If Eleanor is close-but-not-quite, could Eliza be the right choice? While evergreen Elizabeth remains a Top 20 staple, Eliza stands at #131 – popular, but not a chart-topper.
Juliette/Juliet – The -ette ending is more popular than the more familiar -et, but neither makes the current Top 100. (They’re at #185 and #242, respectively.) It’s a more mainstream alternative to Harriet. And Jules is a fun short form.
Lucia/Louisa – I wonder if any of the Lou/Lu names might appeal to you? I can imagine Maya and Evie with a sister called Lou, Lulu, or Lucy. Lucinda is on your list, but maybe something with similar sounds, but a tiny bit shorter and more familiar might work?
Vera – I tend to suggest Vera as an alternative to Cora. Just as distinctive a sound, every bit as rich a history and meaning … and yet, it’s at #257, nicely outside of the most popular names.
Willa – Like Vera, Willa makes a logical substitute for Emma and Ella and other favorites. At #384, it’s known, but seldom heard.
I think any of these fit beautifully with your older girls’ names. I think Daphne and Colette are my favorites, as they sound distinctive and different without being too out-there.
And yet, I want to look at a few from your list again. My only hesitation with Margot is that you’ll repeat an initial. I tell parents to overlook things like that all the time, and yet … how do you feel about it? Maya and Margot share a lot of sound.
Though I want to come back to one more name. You’d mentioned Simone as a middle. Is it to honor a loved one? Or is it something you’d consider as a given name? Because Maya, Evie, and Simone might be my favorite of all. It’s French, like Genevieve; but a little bit on the shorter side, like Maya. It’s familiar, but not too common. And I think distinctive describes the name well. Based on last year’s data, Simone ranks #733 – a name we all know, but no one is using.
Readers, what do you think? I’m tempted by Margot, Harriet, and Simone, as well as Daphne and Colette. But there are probably dozens of great suggestions I haven’t considered!
Thank you all for these fabulous suggestions, much appreciated!
Our favourites at the moment are Clara Simone, Eleanor Miriam or Eleanor Iris.
Still finding it hard to decide, other thoughts or suggestions still welcome!
I instantly loved Margot! I also like Colette from this list. I also second Adelaide and Mireille (tho maybe too similar to Maya) What about Aida, Jocelyn, Katia, Alexi/Alexis, Frieda, Clementina nn Clem, Raphaela nn Ella or Raph or Raphia? Good luck!
If our go with Emmanuelle you could go with Emmy for short, just like Emmy Rossum.
Julie G says
Lior Simone nn Lisi (sounds like Leesee)
Maya, Evie and Lisi.
Julie G says
But really you could spell Leesi however you want. : )
I love Daphne and really really love Simone as a first. Two others that came to mind were Rose nickname Rosie and Leona, which is similar to Leonora so maybe your style.
Oops… missed that sisters middle is Rose 🙂
Maybe Opal instead..
I wonder how Mireille feels to you.
Maya Charlotte and Genevieve Rose — what great names! And great options for little girl number 3! I like Collete and Juliet from Abby’s list.
But the name that immediately came to mind for me was Esther. It is ranked in 2018 at #153 so not too out there but not overly common. For me, it hits close to Harriet and Edith which were both on your list. But can have a nickname of Tess, thus avoiding the Edie / Evie problem of Edith. And technically no initials are repeated M/G/E or M/E/T. It has the history and international elements that you liked about Maya. Esther Ruth or Esther Simone. Maya, Evie and Tess – quite darling!
Another thought for the nickname of Ada is of course Adeline.
Best of luck!
My two daughters were going to be Maya and Genevieve (nicknamed Evie)!! With both of them, were set on those names for months, then ended up with different names about a month beforehand (the daughter who would have been Evie, has Rose as part of a double-barreled first!). Great names!
That said, I love:
Simone as a first name (or Simona Ruth, called Simone)?
Clara Simone (sounds very jazzy – love it!)
Harriet (Hattie!) Simone
Adelaide (nn Heidi) Ruth (Heidi Ruth is adorable!)
Leonora nn Nora Leonora Simone
Alexandra (nn Sasha or Alex) Simone (Alexandra Simone has a great ring to it!)
Sadie (Sarah as a first?) Ruth
Elouise Ruth “Lou”
Leonora Simone “Nora”
Lucille Simone “Lucy”
Congrats on baby 3!!
Erin Beth says
Ada, Audrey, Daphne, Colette, and Phoebe are all wonderful with the sister names. I think my favorites are Audrey Ruth and Phoebe Simone.
One more: Adelaide, nn Ada
Some great suggestions, particularly Daphne, Colette and Juliet.
I’d personally steer clear of using another M, G or E name. A few additional suggestions:
Lydia (nn Lydi)
Sybil (nn Sybi)
Penelope, nn Nell/Nelly
Congrats on baby #3! My daughters name is Genevieve and we call her Evie too! I LOVE Ada on your list. That’s on our future list too. 🙂 You could use Adelaide and call her Ada?
If you really love Emanuelle and Eugenie and they have family significance, you could find more common nicknames to balance it out.
Emanuelle: Emma, Emmy, Elle, Ellie, Ella, Nan
Eugenie/Eugenia: Gia, Nia, Gen
That’s a really good point, Em – thanks!
I honestly think Adelaide would fit perfectly as the names you have chosen are so elegant.
I do also agree though that you should bring back Phoebe its beautiful, it’s my sisters name so I’m gutted I can’t use it.
Phoebe Ruth or Phoebe Simone both work.
What happened to Phoebe? It’s a beautiful classic and goes well with the other girls. Phoebe Simone is pretty wonderful.
Or Josephine? The nicknames are delightful.
I have a friend with a Miriam and their other child is Celeste. Cecily is similar and also lovely.
So many beautiful names to choose from. I’d like to suggest Sabina, Odette and Yvette. My favourites from the names mentioned are Lucy, Margot, Daphne and Phoebe. All so beautiful and work so well with Maya and Genevieve.
Leonora Ruth, nickname Nora.