We’re expecting our third child in a few weeks. If it was a boy, he would have been David. (It’s been our favorite boy name since we started having kids!) But it’s a girl, and we’re stuck.
Our last name is long, Polish, starts with a K, ends with a -ski, almost like Jane Krakowski, the actress from 30 Rock. (Which has been a little weird with our older daughter’s name, but too late now.)
Our daughters are Jane Ashley and Claire Samantha. Jane because I’ve always loved it, and Ashley for my husband’s sister, who passed away before Jane was born. Claire was a name we agreed on immediately, and Samantha is for my grandfather.
We really like short names with strong sounds, but names that are definitely meant for girls. One possibility is Kate, but is Kate too popular? We’ve already met two other Claires around the same age as our daughter.
My mother-in-law is Beth, which could work. But I’d rather keep the family names as middles.
Lastly, we’ve thought about Mae or May, but is that too short?
So do we go with Kate? Or are there other names we haven’t thought of yet?
Read on for my reply, and please share your thoughtful suggestions in the comments!
Hi Sarah –
Congratulations on baby #3!
At first, it seems like this should be easy. But the longer I thought about it, I realized that the list of names that really fit your criteria isn’t all that long!
We’re looking for a name that is:
- Definitely feminine
So no Reese or Sloane, but also no Isabella or Louisa.
It sounds like you’re also looking for a name that’s not too popular – or at least one that is less common than Claire. Claire ranked #44 in 2014, while Jane came in at #322, so there’s a range.
Let’s pause for a quick word on popularity. There are lots of lists of names – the national data, state data, and, of course, Kelli’s brilliant Playground Analysis that looks at combined spellings. But there’s also something that I think of as hyper-local popularity. We often have a lot in common with our friends, neighbors, and the other parents at nursery school/playgroup/swim lessons. It’s no surprise that we like the same baby names, too.
In other words, when you’re among friends and loved ones, there’s a greater chance that you’ll hear the names you like repeating. So while looking at statistics can be helpful, it can also be maddening, when your relatively unusual name repeats anyway.
Now, on to the suggestions. I’ve stuck with shorter names, but not necessarily just one syllable. When I think about your name (Sarah almost-Krakowski), it seems like a two-syllable first name really does work beautifully. But if you’d prefer to stick with a single syllable, there are some great options there, too.
Rose – Classic Rose is often tucked in the middle name spot, but Rose is great as a given name, too. Rose is feminine, straightforward, and strong. Plus, all three names have distinctly different sounds, even though they’re all just one syllable. Jane, Claire, and Rose – I think that’s perfection.
Kate – Kate seems like another strong contender. Kate ranked #207 in 2014, compared to Rose at #194. Neither seems overly popular. Then again, there are lot of girls named Kaitlyn – choose your spelling – and Katherine, currently at #82, is often shortened to Kate. Layer in countless Kaylas and Kaylees, and the Kay sound is very common. Still, I don’t know if that really takes away from classic Kate. Even if you hadn’t mentioned it, I’m sure I would have suggested the name!
Eve/Eva – Like Mae, Eve is a true mini name. Three letters, one syllable, a very spare sound. I wonder if Eva might appeal to you more? Jane, Claire, and Eva. I think they work together nicely. One hesitation: Eve and Eva might share some of the same pitfalls that Kate shares. Names starting with Ev- are very in vogue at the moment.
Ivy – Eve and Eva always make me think of Ivy. Ivy ranked #146 in 2014, which could exactly hit that sweet spot.
Nora – Eva makes me think of Nora. Except that Nora is just inside the US Top 50 right now, so that might be slightly more popular than you’d like. But doesn’t Nora sound like a sister for Jane and Claire? A possible alternative to Nora might be Lena, which ranked #279 in 2014.
Lucy – This is the name that instantly came to mind. I can easily imagine sisters called Jane, Claire, and Lucy. Lou, Liv, and Lux are shorter L names, but none seem quite your style. Lucy has the same vintage-classic vibe as your daughter’s names. All three are at home in a storybook or a science lab.
Ruth – At first, Ruth might seem a little fustier and dustier than Jane and Claire. But vintage, buttoned-up Ruth is very much on the comeback. Ruth ranked #314 in 2014. If you’re considered that Mae is a little short on sound and Kate is too common, Ruth could be a great alternative.
Elise – Gentle Elise is a form of Elizabeth that hits the sweet spot in terms of popularity – less in fashion than Claire, slightly more familiar than Jane.
Tess – One last thought – Tess! Theresa and Terri are very much out of favor, but nickname Tess feels quite current. Tessa ranked #221 in 2014. Tess doesn’t rank in the US Top 1000, but I think it would be immediately understood as a girl’s given name. Jane, Claire, and Tess.
Readers, we have an update from Sarah! She writes: Thanks so much for the help!! We were stuck on Kate or Mae until we went to the hospital, but when she was born, she was so obviously a Rose! We almost named her Rose Elizabeth, the middle name for my mother-in-law. But my mother-in-law dislikes Elizabeth, so we named her Rose Bethany instead. We’re all madly in love – and she wouldn’t have her name without you!
C in DC says
Emme, Elle, Lynn, Jule/Jewel, Liv, Rae, Helen, Ellen, Dorothy/Dot, Minn, Mary
Tess is my favorite from the post.
I was coming to suggest Faye and Hope, but I see they’ve both already been suggested. Faith is another that I like with Jane and Claire.
If you like the two-syllable names, maybe Cora (if not too close to Claire, but I like Cora and Jane together), Thea or Mary would be good for you!
I would recommend my name! Molly. Classic, short, I think it fits with the others well 🙂
Since you already have two beautiful, classic, one syllable names in Jane and Claire I think Mae, from your list is an amazing match. Yes it is a smaller name, but it is a beautiful underused classic. I think that the suggestions of Pearl, Ruth, Rose, and Tess are all equally perfect with Jane and Claire, but Pearl is my personal favorite. If you were looking to get away from the one syllable name my favorite suggestion is Nora. In fact I have a story where the main character has two daughters named Claire and Nora. I really can not think of any names to suggest because the best name have already been suggested.
Charlotte @ to Harriet Louise says
Of these, my favorite are Rose and Lucy. (I love Nora, also, but if they decide to stick to one syllable…) I think Grace also goes well with Jane and Claire.
hope t. says
As several others have suggested, I think the name Anne is a wonderful fit with the sisters’ names. I also have always loved Mae. I wanted to suggest Kay as an alternative to Kate, as it seems less nickname-y. Also, Bess would be a nice name to consider since it blends together Beth and Tess.
Rose would make a beautiful sister for Jane and Claire! Or maybe Hope.
To me Kate is too much like Jane and Claire – starts with the same sound as Claire, and has the same AY sound as Jane. But someone else might find that delightfully unifying.
Laura Rose says
My first thought was Hope. I love Claire and Rose both, so very, very much. I’d also suggest Grace. Or Laura. 😉
My first thought (before reading the post) was Ada, which is shorter in letters, but longer in syllables than your older girls. I still think it could be a nice fit, though slightly unexpected. I imagine it might be mistaken for Ava, with current trends being what they are.
I love Mae and Tess. Blythe is lovely, but there is not consensus on the voiced vs. unvoiced “th” sound, which I would find bothersome. Swistle Baby Name Blog had a post on that a while back.
Some other ideas – Lynn, Leah, Bette, Fay(e), Dot, Wren/Ren/Renne (I know one of each!).
I’m naming my second daughter Pearl. Big sis is Grace. We wanted something one syllable as well and 5 letters. It also is my grandma and great grandma’s names
Anne came to mind immediately. Anne is classic and one syllable like Jane and Claire and less used than either of them at this time. Jane, Claire and Anne would be a lovely trio of names for your sister set.
I just recalled a post titled “Little Black Dress” on the baby name blog “you can’t call it it”:
“The little black dress of a name is one of understated beauty and deceptive simplicity. From Grace Kelly to Grace Jones, women throughout the ages have embodied these names in a way that becomes specific to the individual. These eternal classics will serve any girl well and allow herself to wear the name, rather than the name wear her.
Kate (as a nickname for Katherine)
There you have it: Jane, Claire and Anne; they go so well together!
I like Kate too, but Claire and Kate begin with the same sound — and Kate, as is noted above, is often thought of as a nickname. One syllable Eve, Grace, or Rose meet your one syllable criteria, but for me, they don’t have the same vibe as Jane and Claire, which are English (“British”) classics, like Anne.
I think Kate is a fantastic choice, as is May/Mae. I love the name Lucy but don’t think it flows quite right. My best friend when I was tiny was Jane, & her sisters were Anne & Grace, so those names come immediately to mind as other options.
I think Kate is fantastic with your sib set. It is classic, but that means it won’t ever go out of style, and it fits so many personalities. I also love Tess – it definitely doesn’t get much play these days.
If May feels short, would Maeve work better? Also, what about Gail? It’s definitely not trendy, but it slots in well with Jane and Claire.
I have a May. I absolutely love her name and we’ve gotten nothing but positive reactions to it, without meeting any others so far. You might here a lot of “My _____’s middle name is May,” so if that will bother you it might make sense to use something else, but I personally think May in the middle is completely different than May as a first. I was also surprised that some people hear Meg, but again it doesn’t take away from my love of her name.
To me, it would be kind of pleasing that Jane, Claire & May would each have one syllable names but a different number of letters.
I’d caution against Kate. as a Kathryn I may be more aware of it, but Kate seems to be everywhere as a first name, nickname, or middle name. I love Mae/May, Rose, and Tess(a)! Great choices! Ruth is lovely too and feels unexpected. I was surprised to hear how popular it is.
I would most definitely suggest checking the popularity in her specific area. We were worried about using Grace for our youngest, but don’t know any personally. There were none at my older daughter’s daycare, and only one in my son’s entire elementary school. Our Grace is now a year old, and we have yet to meet another.
Speaking of, Grace could work nicely for them. I would also suggest Anne, Blanche, Blythe, Dove, Faith, Faye, Maeve, and Wren.
I love love love Mae. Go for it! I think it’s strong but sweet. I also love Tess, for the same reason, and Lucy too, but I don’t think Lucy fits in quite as well with your requirements.
Blythe!! Short, uncommon and gorgeous. And fits right in with her sisters. But I love Mae too! Blythe Elizabeth or Mae Elizabeth for mom. Lucy is fab with this set too.
My first thought was Anne. How about Maeve? It is like Mae but longer. Lucy made me think of Amy and Esme. I do think Kate is the best idea though. Anyway, good luck!
Any interest in Blythe? Similarly monosyllabic and strong, but not nearly as common as Kate or even Mae/May (which seems to be picking up momentum).
Kate & Nora get my vote. I don’t know any babies/kids named Kate.
Hello. There seems to be a long vowel pattern with your children – Rose, Mae, Ruth and Eve fit this. ‘SUE’ comes to mind for that reason, but possibly it is more of a nickname so not quite in the same category. As does ‘ANNE’.
Since you spell Claire the French way, would you consider ‘LAURE’?
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