Name Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.
We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!
Meaghan writes:
Wondering if you might help us with naming our boy, due in November.
His sister is named Luella, a name you featured on the site, which we loved for its unusual but feminine sound. We actually first stumbled upon it when reading up on the history of 20th century blues singers.
Now, we are looking for an equally charming name for our son. My husband’s family has a long tradition of naming boys Charles, but we are planning to break that tradition. At present, names on our list include Marlon, Haddon (a family name) and … well, not much else! We are open to suggestions.
I generally like names with some historical weight behind them – I’m not so much into more modern sounding names like Brandon, or Bryce, for example), but my husband is not into names that sound TOO formal, like Alden, or Phineas, (both of which would be on my list).
Could you suggest some names that like Luella are unusual without being too “out there”?
Please read on for my response, and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.
Dear Meaghan –
Congratulations on your son!
Here’s the tricky part about unusual-but-not-too-out-there: it’s different for boys.
I wish that wasn’t true. And I’m happy to report that it’s changing. But the fact remains that over the centuries, we’ve used a broader range of names for girls. That means the pool of possibilities for boys is comparatively shallow. This means that we tend to favor the fits-in over the stands-out when it comes to naming sons … at least a little bit.
The other part of the equation that gives me pause is the idea of a name being “too formal.” I get that vibe from Phineas – the spelling is slightly involved, and it’s tempting to shorten it to the more casual Finn. But Alden feels like an obvious match for Marlon and Haddon, so I’d put them on the exact same list. (It sounds like you have!)
Still, sometimes we just plain can’t describe the reasons one name feels not-quite-right. I suspect some of my suggestions fall a little close to Phineas, but hopefully they’re on the right side of the line.
So what’s the masculine equivalent of Luella?
Caspian – A relative newcomer to the US Top 1000, Caspian blends a sort of literary, romantic vibe with a long history of Cas- names for boys. (Caspar, Casimir, Casey, etc.) While three syllables might strike some as extravagant, like Luella, it really doesn’t need to be shortened.
Cedric – Have I gone too far? It’s unusual, but it’s ranked in the Top 1000 every year since 1940 – and many years before that. The name comes straight out of literature. (Think Sir Walter Scott’s 1819 novel Ivanhoe.) The fact that he’s a significant character in the Harry Potter universe makes the name feel more familiar to a younger generation, though so far, it’s not led to an increase in the name’s use. But that might suit your family just fine!
Duncan – I always expect Duncan to be a little more popular than it is. After all, it’s vaguely literary. (He’s the late king in MacBeth.) And it’s got a certain indie vibe, too. It’s as brief as Alden and Marlon, a nickname-proof choice that feels as casual and cool as Luella.
Foster – Foster makes the list because it has the same nickname-proof qualities as Duncan, and I think it has the same not-quite-discovered vibe, too. I’ve always liked the potential meaning: to foster is to encourage. But, of course, it’s broadly associated with foster care, which might give some pause. But it’s close enough to Top 100 favorites like Carter and Hunter to blend in just enough.
McCoy – Doesn’t Luella feel just the tiniest bit Southern? Not in the Scarlett-Gracie Mae way, but in a more subtle fashion? I’d say the same for McCoy. There’s also the Star Trek character, and the phrase “the real McCoy,” but I’m not sure either distract from the name’s appeal.
Shepherd – Or should it be Shepard? Either way, I think there’s something masculine and meaningful, a modern name with deep roots.
Thatcher – Thatcher makes the list for the same reasons as Foster. It’s relatively uncommon, but easy to spell and pronounce. And it feels like an appropriate name for a son, even if he’ll rarely share it with another.
Wallace – Up until last year, Wallace hadn’t appeared in the US Top 1000 for over two decades. It’s an impeccable classic. Wally isn’t the most appealing short forms, but Wallace in full is quite handsome.
If all of these feel a little too different, I’m tempted to suggest Everett, Knox, and Hayes, all names that appear in the current US Top 350. (Everett is actually in the Top 100.)
From your list, I think Haddon is practically perfect. It’s different, but family name status counts for an awful lot.
If Haddon is a non-starter, my favorites is Duncan. I think it hits the familiar-not-common note exactly. There’s history there – two real kings of Scotland, aside from Shakespeare’s ruler. And it has the same casual cool of Luella.
While it’s much more popular, I also love Hayes with Luella.
Readers, over to you! What would you name a brother for Luella?
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My name is Luella and my brothers name is Reuben
A quick follow up to let you know we called him Arlo! Thanks for the suggestion!
My name is Luella, and my bro is Edwin
Thank you, everyone, for these awesome name suggestions. I will let you know what we chose come November:)
I think the suggestion of Whitman is genius. Luella and Whitman. El and Whit. LOVE IT.
Thor, Magnus, Duke: all outsider of the Top 1000, but have a long history.
Montgomery or Earl?
Albion?
I had a great aunt named Luella on one side of the family and a two times great grandmother called Luella on the other. Both were midwesterners. One Luella had a brother seemed Everett, a name that seems to be coming back in style.
Here to suggest Damon.
How about Alton? Alton Brown makes it familiar-ish, but it’s got plenty of history.
Or there’s Floyd. He’s got chops and class…much like Luella.
Ridley could fit, too. Ridley Scott has quite a career behind him, so the name isn’t unknown.
Kincade might be cool. He”s basically unused but is current in sound. Luella and Kincade.
Finally, how about Bowman? He has your long ‘oh’, is rare but not weird, and sounds wonderful with Luella.
Congrats and best wishes on your sweet son!
How about Braxton?
Haddon is extra great because Luella feels Southern and it’s a family surname… at least I think it is?
If you decide against it, I figured since you found Luella in the musical world, I thought you might like another musician’s name
Chord – too on the nose?
Coltrane
Arlo
Crosby
I also love the suggestion of Miles in this category
would all be sweet with Luella and with Haddon is a middle name! Best of luck!!
LOVE love the suggestion of Crosby!
I agree with @Julie G: Haddon sounds pretty perfect. Luella and Haddon both sound charming, classy, and different without being too unusual, and I like the way they sound together. Plus, family names are always special.
Some similar names I’d suggest if you aren’t sold on Haddon:
Arden
Hadley
Edmund
Harris
Graham
I also think Abby’s suggestion of Cedric would be unexpected and cool!
My cousins have a little Luella and her baby brother is named Tobin which I think could fit your criteria if it appeals.
Additional suggestions:
Waylon
Nolan
Clive
Wynton
Arlen
Reginald/Reggie
Dalton
Boone
Boyd
Seth
Harlan
Duke
Wyatt
Sullivan/Sully
Finnegan/Finn
Jude
Brooks
Hayes
Tate
Burke
Deacon
Lyle
Oh goodness i love Caspian and if you need a nn Cass is great. I also noticed the “o” theme and was thinking Arlo before i even remembered it’s a great nn for Charles.
I like Alden but it seems to lack the romance of Luella. I do like Haddon too but for me it’s one of those names where there will never be an introduction without “that’s interesting where’s that’s from?” Or “how do you spell that” etc etc.
I’d also vote for Shepherd. But I’m not sure it’s my favorite with Luella.
Luella is beautiful! And a hard game to follow.
I like Thatcher, Shepherd or Cedric a lot. Coming from the NE, Duncan is too readily associated with donuts. But that may be a regional thing.
The thing I notice from Marlon and Haddon is the “o” sound. So, I was wondering about Otto or Otis.
Luella and Otto? Luella and Otis? Otis Charles is quite perfect! Plus Otis keeps the musical connection from Luella. Or what about Cyrus? Luella and Cyrus? Keeps the C from Charles while allowing your little guy to have his own name.
Best of luck!
Jethro, Jedidiah, Josiah, Arlo (could be a nn for Charles), Walt, Walton, Wesley, Weston, Whitman, Woodrow, Jonah, Frederick, Matthias, Dane, Travis, Trent
Haddon is pretty much perfect, Alden is great too, and doesn’t sound too formal at all, although I think Phineas does.
As a sib for Luella (which is an awesome name, by the way, and can be shortened/nicknamed in at least 5 awesome ways) , I am thinking more evergreen- old school for you. I really like Johnny or Hank. So…
John Charles nn Johnny
Henry Charles nn Hank
Both Johnny and Hank work beautifully with Luella.
I hope we get to hear what you choose! Congratulations!
Samson!! Or Harris, Miles, Odin, August. Something vintage, but a little quirky.