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Name Help: Fourth Four-Letter Boy Name

September 25, 2020 By appellationmountain 21 Comments

Name Help: Four Letter Boy NamesName Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.

We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!

Emily writes:

We have three boys, and we’re expecting our fourth! Our sons all have one-syllable, four-letter nicknames: Will (William), Jake (Jacob), and Nate (Nathaniel).

It’s not something we planned, but we’d like to stick with it for this baby, especially as he’ll be our last.

We could use some help with our options. So far, we have:

Nicholas – My husband’s name. Probably not a junior. We could call him Cole, which I love. But would people want to call him Nick?

Finn – Maybe my favorite boy name right now! But longer names seem very Irish – Finnegan, Finley – and we’re not.

Our last name is Italian, like man-C-knee. Because of that, we’ve ruled out M names. We like names that are traditional, but not old-fashioned, and easy to spell and pronounce.

If we weren’t going to worry about the four-letter part, I like sound of Benjamin, though we know two under two, so maybe we’d feel like it was taken.

Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.

Dear Emily –

Congratulations on boy number four!

That symmetry with formal names and short nicknames is so pleasing. Keeping the pattern makes sense to me!

And yet, I’m surprised at how few options I found.

Part of the challenge? Will, Jake, and Nate are Top 100, mainstream favorites. By definition, there are only so many possibilities at that same general level of popularity. At first glance, Pendleton-called-Penn fits … except it doesn’t, not really.

I do think Nicholas-called-Cole works. Yes, it will take some repetition, and some people will default to Nick. But there’s some magic to saying, “Oh, my husband is also Nick, so we call him Cole.” But does that feel satisfying to you? Or is the (occasional) hassle something you’d rather avoid?

Now on to Finn: would you consider Fintan, Finan, or Finnian? They’re all Irish. But I think Finnian man-c-knee is less of a mismatch than Finnegan man-c-knee. (Maybe?) Another thought: Griffin “Finn” man-c-knee. Though, as with Nicholas-called-Cole, Griffin-called-Finn isn’t as automatic as your older sons’ nicknames.

On to some more possibilities!

LONGER BOY NAMES WITH FOUR-LETTER NICKNAMES

Andrew, called Drew – It’s classic and, while you might get the occasional Andy, Drew is very well established, too.

Beckett, called Beck – Will, Jake, Nate, and Beck sound like they should be out riding horses together somewhere. But maybe Beckett is too much of a departure from the more traditional William, Jacob, and Nathaniel?

Gabriel, called Gabe – One of the first names that came to mind, particularly because it’s such an automatic short form.

Grayson or Greyer, called Gray or Grey – I think these names have tons of potential, but again, they’re a little outside of your usual style.

Lucas or Lucian, called Luke – Luke doesn’t require a formal name, of course. But plenty of options exist, and I think Lucas-called-Luke is the most obvious choice if you rule out Cole and Finn.

Raphael, called Rafe – Raphael isn’t terribly common in English, but the name counts as a classic, and Rafe fits well with your older boys’ names.

Zachary, called Zach – Zachary peaked a few years ago, but it still feels like a solid choice for a son.

Ezekiel, called Zeke – The more current alternative to Zachary/Zach, but maybe a little on the different side.

Overall, my top pick is Lucas-called-Luke. It’s popular, yes. But I’m assuming you meet lots of other children with your sons’ names, and don’t mind at all. And you shouldn’t! They’re strong, solid choices – popular names catch on for a reason.

I also appreciate the way that Luke has a completely different vowel sound that Will, Jake, and Nate. And while it repeats the ‘k’ ending of Jake, I think Luke and Jake sound very different.

Readers, over to you! Can you suggest some traditional four-letter boy names with built-in longer forms?

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Comments

  1. Ducky says

    October 9, 2020 at 10:50 PM

    I love Nicolas, Andrew, and Lucas…but Beckett makes me swoon!

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  2. Julie G says

    September 28, 2020 at 8:24 AM

    I am leaving my suggestions without having read the other’s suggestions so here are my favorites of Abby’s and then some of my own…

    Nicholas nn Cole
    Beckett nn Beck
    Gabriel nn Gabe
    Lucas nn Luke
    Daniel nn Dane
    Andrew nn Drew
    George nn Gage
    Benjamin/Bennett nn Benn
    Peter nn Pete
    Thomas nn Thom
    Jason nn Jace

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    • Julie G says

      September 28, 2020 at 8:32 AM

      Now that I have read the comments, I am not sure why I did not think of these two, one being my own son’s name, and the other being a name on our boy’s shortlist which I love but which we never used:

      Joseph nn Joss
      Henry nn Hank

      Love love love

      Reply
  3. RL says

    September 27, 2020 at 12:11 PM

    What about Sebastian nn Bash? Or Thomas nn Thom? Samuel nn Sami?

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  4. Jonquil says

    September 27, 2020 at 4:29 AM

    Frederick – Fred
    Llewellyn – Llew
    Oliver – Noll
    Richard – Rich, Rick
    Paulinus – Paul
    Theodore – Theo is great imho.

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  5. Dr. Awkward says

    September 26, 2020 at 4:04 PM

    What about naming him Benjamin and using the four-letter nickname Benj? One of my profs in grad school went by Benj; I like the way it strikes a balance between the solid familiarity of Ben and the sweetness of Benjy.

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  6. CA says

    September 26, 2020 at 3:08 AM

    I really love Nicholas called Cole. I don’t think it will take much at all for people to get Cole. It’s not an unusual nickname for Nicholas, and if you only introduce him as Cole, that’s what people will call him. The fact that he is the youngest and named after his dad is so perfect. I wouldn’t be able to resist that! Plus, I love that it fits right in with his brothers, but has different sounds. Jake and Nate have the long as and the hard k and t. Will and Cole are both softer in their sounds, so they all balance well together. The symmetry of the set is lovely!

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  7. The Mrs. says

    September 25, 2020 at 10:03 PM

    I know two men named Daniel who go by Dane.

    Henry nn Hank is an excellent suggestion!

    My favorite, though, is Nicholas with the nn of Cole.
    Why?
    First, if a son is going to get his father’s name, it’s always the first-born; in this case, the youngest gets the honor.
    Second, Cole sounds completely unique from Will, Jake, or Nate when yelled from downstairs.
    Third, Nicholas is every bit as classic as William, Jacob, and Nathaniel.

    Best wishes and congrats to your growing family!

    Reply
  8. Candy Brown says

    September 25, 2020 at 6:26 PM

    Zachary (Zach) is a home run. It sounds like a match with his brothers and sounds the best when spoken out loud with your last name. Congratulations to you and your family!

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  9. L. says

    September 25, 2020 at 4:40 PM

    I think Cole would be perfect! My daughter uses the nickname that you don’t think of first for her formal name, and it’s been no big deal (Margaret -> Maisy). There are SO many kids these days who don’t go by former generations’ go-to nicknames (often because they use no nickname at all). I love Gabriel, but that would leave Will as the only one without the long A. I know you like 4-letter names, but I think Thomas -> Tom, Benjamin -> Ben, Samuel -> Sam and Daniel -> Dan really fit the sibset style-wise and sound-wise. What about Josh? Also a J but sounds totally distinct from Jake. Or Christopher? I like Luke as a whole name by itself more than as a nickname for Lucas or whatever. I like Zach for the symbolism to of being the end of the alphabet, and he’s the last kid. I think Raphael, Ezekiel, or Finnegan would be much bigger outliers to your sibset even if they have a 4-letter nickname than Tom, Ben, Sam or Dan would be. Cole, Drew, Josh, and Zach tick all of your boxes and fit the popularity and style of your other kids, without sounding too similar (also Michael and Matthew if you would consider an M name).

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  10. Ariana says

    September 25, 2020 at 2:54 PM

    Theodore/Theo!

    Reply
  11. skupskia says

    September 25, 2020 at 1:29 PM

    I had the same issue with Finn as you, I love the nickname Finn but none of the longer names were quite right for us. We ended up finding Fennec, nn Fenn (which I love for the nature connection and the Finn/Fenn sound, and has the bonus of the nn “Nick” if he wants to use that when he’s older).

    I also love the Griffin/Finn suggestion for you.

    Reply
  12. Bethanie says

    September 25, 2020 at 1:23 PM

    Theodore-Theo

    Reply
  13. A says

    September 25, 2020 at 1:17 PM

    Came here to suggest Zachary called Zack but Abby beat me to it. I also love the suggestion of Lucas called Luke. Nicholas called Cole is adorable and if you introduce him as Cole I don’t think you’ll have to worry about people calling him Nick. Plus the whole “dad’s name is Nicholas too so we call him Cole” explanation is perfect.

    Other suggestions

    Matthew “Matt”
    Alexander “Alex” or even “Zane”
    Griffin “Finn”
    James or John “Jack”
    Isaac “Zack” or “Zeke”

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  14. C in DC says

    September 25, 2020 at 12:43 PM

    I love the idea of Nicholas-not-a-junior-nn-Cole. I know you said 4 letter nn, but Calvin nn Cal (Cale?) seems like a great fit for you. Harold nn Hale. Gregory nn Gary or Gage or Greg. Josiah or Joseph nn Joss. Christopher nn Chip or Kristopher nn Kris. Seth on its own. Anthony nn Tony. Vincent nn Vince. Peter nn Pete. Philip nn Flip. Charles nn Chase or Chaz.

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  15. Renée says

    September 25, 2020 at 12:23 PM

    Oh I love the idea of Nicholas nn Cole! It feels like a nice circle if this is your last. I think people will follow your lead when he’s born. And you can introduce him to acquaintances as Cole right off the bat.

    I also was coming to say Griffin for Finn. I love the name Griffin a lot, and Finn is adorable.

    But I think Abby’s idea of Lucas nn Luke is the best ‘fit’ with the sibset. Will, Jake, Nate, Luke. They seem like a box set.

    I think you’ve already got some perfect options, but it’s fun to brainstorm, so how about a play on the fact he’s the fourth?
    Clifford / Fordham / Whitford / Redford nn Ford or Four
    Marcus nn Mars (fourth planet – I know you’re trying to avoid M-names but alliteration done right can sound awesome)
    Julian / Justin nn Jude (fourth son of Abraham is Judah)
    Cameron or Robert nn Rowe (Quattro)
    Andrew nn Drew (as Abby suggested above could also be for quaDRUple)

    Or something that’s a nod to your name?
    Emmett nn Mets/Mett/Mitz

    or… Charles nn Chip?

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  16. Iris says

    September 25, 2020 at 10:29 AM

    Gabe, Drew and Zach are all wonderful ideas.
    My favorite is Zach because it doesn’t repeat the long A sound (like Jake and Nate) and it’s the obvious nickname for Zachary, so no enforcing needed.
    Will, Jake, Nate and Zach sounds like a cohesive sibset.

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  17. Megan says

    September 25, 2020 at 9:08 AM

    ZEKE ZEKE ZEKE. If not Ezekiel perhaps Hezekiah.

    My next choice would be Henry called Hank.

    There’s also

    Hughes or Houston called Hugh
    Beauregard called Beau
    Bartholomew called Bate
    Magnus or any Irish/Scottish name starting in Mc/Mac called Mack
    Michael called Mick
    Edward called Ward

    There’s several less traditional choices as well, but I think these fit best.

    Reply
  18. Grace says

    September 25, 2020 at 8:32 AM

    Zachary / Zach sounds perfect with Will, Jake and Nate.

    Reply
  19. Kelly says

    September 25, 2020 at 7:55 AM

    I love Lucian/Luke, and I also like Gabriel/Gabe.

    Reply
  20. Anna says

    September 25, 2020 at 7:49 AM

    Congratulations!
    I like Cole, Drew and Zach the most with your group.

    Reply

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