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AVOIDING A(NOTHER) SPELLING HEADACHE
Cloe writes:
The spelling of my name has been a headache my whole life. Now that I’m expecting a baby, my main goal is to not hand down a legacy of explaining “no, it’s spelled …” every single time.
My husband sort of gets it, because during our wedding planning, I had to correct it many, multiple times, even with members of his family. But he has a traditional name with only one spelling – Robert, Rob for short. No one calls him Robb, though he doesn’t like Bob, but it’s not really the same thing.
Our boys’ list is straightforward: William “Will”, James maybe Jamie, but maybe just James, and possibly Jack but I feel like I hear that name a lot.
But our girls’ list is impossible. Anna is also Ana. I like Katherine, but not Catherine/Kathryn/Katharine. Caroline is Carolyn. Because I like Jane Austen, I always wanted to name a daughter Elinor, but it really would be Eleanor, wouldn’t it? I guess there’s Mary, but that seems too old-fashioned. I sort of liked Evelyn, but I’m bothered by shortening it to eh-vee or ee-vee.
We’re not the kind of people who could name our kid Haven or Willow or Forsythia. I want to love Harriet and Louise, but my husband pushes back against anything that he thinks is too old-fashioned and I know what he means.
I realize that I’m overthinking this, but I really don’t want to get it wrong.
Our last name sounds like Park-with-an-S-at-the-end.
Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.
SPELLING COUNTS
Abby replies:
Congratulations on your new daughter!
At first glance, your question is straightforward: which traditional girls’ names have only one spelling?
Except it’s a bit of challenge, because traditional names tend to be used in multiple languages. That’s why there’s Sophia and Sofia, Claire and Clare – and sometimes even Clair.
I think there are two things to bear in mind:
- There’s a difference between a name with multiple, widely-used spellings and a name that could be spelled differently. Yes, I’ve seen Kwynn on the very fringes of US popularity data, but it’s really going be Quinn 99% of the time.
- You’re looking for both a given name and a nickname that are hassle-free, right? I almost missed your comment about Evelyn, but yes – I’ve heard this name shortened to rhyme with Stevie or like bevy. That’s an ever bigger set of challenges.
But we can manage both!
It sounds like we also need to strike a balance between traditional and familiar, so let’s dive in.
FRESH SUGGESTIONS FOR GIRL NAMES WITH JUST ONE SPELLING
CASSANDRA
It’s not as traditional as Katherine, but Cassandra really only has a single spelling. Better still, Cassie is the default nickname and it is rarely spelled another way. So I think checks both boxes and sounds great with your shorter surname.
CLARA
Sure, there are some Klaras out there. But Clara-with-a-C is the runaway favorite in the US, and across the English-speaking world.
EMMA
On the downside, Emma is a long-time Top Ten, and frequent #1 name. The positive twist? Everyone knows how to spell and pronounce Emma.
JANE
If you love Jane Austen and considered Elinor, might I suggest … Jane? A rock solid classic with an appealing balance between serious and light. Just like the author, I think.
JOSEPHINE
The default nickname for Josephine is Josie or Jo. Either way, the spelling tends to be pretty standard. And Josephine is a solidly traditional option, heard across the years.
KATE
Would you consider Kate instead of Katherine? There are some Cates and Caties out there. (Blanchett, of course.) But even Catherine Middleton spelled Kate with a K.
MEREDITH
Solidly traditional, but more in the Cassandra category than, say Elizabeth. Only ever spelled one way, at least in the English-speaking world.
VALERIE
As with Clara/Klara, there is the occasional Valery. And yet, I think you’d find that nearly everyone could immediately spell and pronounce Valerie. I love it with your surname.
My first thought was Jane, because you mentioned Jane Austen. But then I asked myself: what about Jayne?
The good news: Jane is a perpetual Top 500 choice, and often more popular than that. Jayne, on the other hand, left the US Top 1000 in the early 1980 and wasn’t especially common before that. In 2024, a mere 65 girls were named Jayne versus nearly 1200 newborn Janes.
And really, that’s the crux of the matter, isn’t it? You’re not just trying to give your daughter a name with a single spelling. We are creative people. There’s always some other way to spell even the most popular names: Miah, Amelya, Izabel. You know what it’s like to be the Izabel. But your daughter would be the Jane or Clara or Kate.
Finding girl names with just one spelling might be an incredible challenge. But finding girl names with just one spelling that others would anticipate? That’s a slightly different framing, and it makes your task slightly less stressful.
Jane gets my vote, followed by Valerie. I’m not sure if you have middle names in mind, but I love the idea of Jane Elinor (or Eleanor, though middle name spellings seem so much less fraught) or Valerie Jane.
Readers, over to you! Can you suggest some traditional girl names with just one spelling?
I think you should keep Anna on the list. Yes, it has two spellings, but your name is the more uncommon spelling of Chloe. Anna is the most common and at the top. It’s unlikely anyone would think your hypothetical Anna would be with one N
My first thought was Jane as well. My second was Elizabeth. Both of those names are sometimes spelled in other ways, but the alternate spellings are rare enough that I don’t think it would come up much. Abigail popped into my mind as well.
It seems like the truly frustrating thing about the writer’s own name is not that there are multiple spellings, but that her parents chose a “creative”/less dominant spelling. We can’t control whether, after LW gives her daughter with one dominant accepted spelling, other parents create new spellings or choose minority spellings for the same name (I.e. Jane/Jayne) or people she encounters don’t get it right the first time occasionally.
My name is somewhere in the comments, and as far as I know there isn’t another legitimate spelling of it, and I have issues sometimes with people not spelling my name right. I think there are some things we just can’t totally avoid in a fallen world, lol!
But definitely, Catherine/Katherine, Laura/Lara, Cecilia/Cecelia are not the right choices given LW’s preferences. But I just want to say, if there is one dominant accepted spelling of a name you love, don’t let a minority spelling or potential future kre8ive spelling dissuade you!
Oh- and just want to throw my hat in the ring for Mary Elinor! Could you think of Mary not as old-fashioned but as familiar, which might be just what you are looking for? Jane is also fabulous.
Laura and Lara are totally different names. I suppose accents are a factor. Laura has tricky vowels. To me, with a typical Upper Midwest accent, Laura rhymes with Cora and Nora. Lara is Lahr-.ruh.
But I think their closeness creates the type of confusion the LW would not want (“wait, is your name spelled with a U or without” etc
Annie, that’s such a good point. I’m always surprised when someone thinks to spell my name Abi or Abbie. Yes, those spellings exist. And there are lots of people with Yoruba names in my area, so shortening Abimbola to Abi makes sense. But I’m pretty clearly an Abigail, and Abby is so, so common, but still …
Joy
Marie
Sadie
Lydia
Bethany
Beth
Ellie
Rachel
Hazel
Mabel
Justine
Geneva
Pearl
Ella
Cora
Florence
Flora
Margaret (Maggie or Meg or Greta)
June
Irene
Iris
Eliza
Opal
Rose (maybe not with your last name…)
Penny
Polly
Paisley
Georgia
Tamsin
Rowena
Violet
Lorelei
Winifred
Melanie
Paula
Ingrid
Okay, I’m actually surprised by how many names there are with one dominant spelling! Location names which have integrated themselves into the mainstream of culture are pretty easy: Florence, Geneva, Bethany, Paisley, Georgia etc. Is there somewhere special to you both? Does it have a wonderful name?
Nouns like Penny, Violet, and Opal are widely accepted as having a “correct” spelling, too. Some may not work well with your surname, but maybe her birthstone or flower would work.
Congratulations and best wishes! It’s loving that you don’t want her to struggle with the same challenge you faced with your name. Good job, mama!
Julia
Abigail
Lydia
Laura
Helen
Louise
Alice
I was going to say Clara but Abby beat me to it! I think the rest of the names all work really well too — I love Kate, Jane, and Josephine especially. And I don’t think Mary feels too old fashioned. It’s definitely read for a comeback. If you want any other fresh ideas, which I don’t think you need , I thought of Rose. Good luck picking (as someone with a non dominant spelling of my first, middle, and last name…I totally understand this goal).
I see Lucy being mentioned a lot, and I may be biased because I have a granddaughter Lucy, but it really is pretty perfect. I wasn’t a fan of the name before she came into our life but love it now. I’ve seen it on “sweet spot” names lists; easy to pronounce, spell, familiar but not overused. And it means “light” – doesn’t get any better. Lucy Elinor, Lucy Katherine, Lucy Jane – they all work and are adorable.
And I understand the frustration of a misspelled name! And also of a nickname instead of the full name. My name is Margaret, but have always gone by Marge – so I get, Marj, Marg, etc. And saying “you can always use your full name when you get older” doesn’t always work when everyone knows you by your shortened name!
Grace
Fiona
Lucy
Rose
Hazel
Violet
Charlotte
Alice
Victoria
June
Penelope
Stella
I think there is a secondary challenge here, as Abby and commenters have pointed out a lot of very lovely mostly one-spelling options. You’re also looking for a timeless classic? Not too dusty, not too currently-popular and decidedly ‘adult’? Based on your loved list, here are my suggestions:
Eva
Grace
Iris
Marie
That window between dusty and trendy is tight and only you two can decide, so also adding: Mary Jane, Pippa, Vera.
I think you should plunk Elinor in the middle if you have no other ideas! That’s the perfect spot for a spelling exception – although I do have an acquaintance who named her daughter Elinor and she likes that it weeds out those who don’t immediately get the reference 😉