Name Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every Saturday – and some Mondays! – one reader’s name questions will be discussed.
We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!
Our son’s name is Denali, after the National Park (no, not the car). We love it. However, we picked such an unusual name for our first child, we don’t know how to go about choosing a name for the little girl we are expecting!
We do plan on using another less common name, but we aren’t committed to it being at a certain “level” of rareness (e.g. in the Top 1000 is certainly okay!).
We like names that aren’t invented but perhaps aren’t often used as names — we would love a name from science, literature, geography, or history. Obviously we love nature too, but we want to avoid any kind of theme, which rules out mountains, Alaska, etc. And definitely no cars!
In terms of sound, we would prefer to avoid “y” or “i” endings, and names starting with B, D, or N. Our last name is a short one-syllable, so 2+ syllables for a first name are a must.
Read on for my response, and please add your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.
Hi Bebe –
Congratulations on baby #2!
The challenge of naming our first child is that it tends to feel like a blank slate – we could choose anything, so how do we go about narrowing the list?
The challenge of naming our second child is the exact opposite – some names that we would have considered now feel like they’re off the table, either because they’re too close to our firstborn’s name – or wildly different. The list is narrowed for us!
In your case, I think one question to ponder is this: do you want your daughter’s name to feel more feminine, or to hit the same gender neutral note as Denali? (Denali isn’t common at all, but it is used for boys and girls.) There are plenty of nature names that fall into this category, especially nature names like Rowan and River.
But I’m also thinking of lots of interesting, three-syllable names for girls that end with a. While they’re rare, they feel more conventionally feminine.
It’s not a decision you have to make now – and it might be the act of choosing the name that answers the question!
But I found myself circling back to the feminine-or-unisex debate as I looked at name possibilities, and it might be a subject to discuss with your partner.
I’ll include names that would work for both styles.
Juniper – The first name that comes to mind is Juniper. Denali and Juniper sound just right together, and while Juniper is more popular, it’s not Emma. (In 2014, Juniper ranked #490 for girls, which works out to a little over 600 girls.) Juniper is a nature name with an upbeat vibe. Strictly speaking, it’s gender neutral – Brother Juniper was a thirteenth century follower of Saint Francis, and Saint Junipero took his name in honor of him. But it’s far more common for girls today. Two similar choices that come to mind: Juno and Lavender.
Odessa – Odessa is one of my favorite underused names for girls. It’s so close to familiar choices like Olivia and Vanessa, and yet it’s completely different, too. While I can’t think of a tie between Odessa and science, I feel like this one touches on literature, geography, and history, too. Odessa is the feminine form of Odysseus, as in The Odyssey, as in an adventure-packed journey. It’s also a place name, of course, in the Ukraine and Texas, to name two. My favorite thing about Odessa is that it was in the US Top 1000 right into the 1950s, but is rare, rare, rare in 2016. I love the sound of Denali and Odessa, with the subtle repeating D.
Sonnet – Or maybe you’d like a name that is literally literary. Sonnet, Poem, and Fable all come to mind, but I think Sonnet might fit your criteria best. I think most people would recognize it as a literary term immediately, and yet Sonnet sounds like it could be a name. Maybe that’s because ends-in-t names like Violet and Scarlett are having a moment. Or maybe because it’s just a great name.
Marigold, Magnolia – Like Juniper, Marigold and Magnolia are quirky, slightly outside of the mainstream, nature names. But they feels more conventionally feminine. Magnolia, of course, ends in a, while Marigold comes from the flower name, originally a contraction of the phrase “Mary’s gold.” Both feel a little more vintage than new, though.
Hypatia – I feel like you’d prefer a name that’s more modern, rather than an ancient name revived. And yet Hypatia of Alexandria is tempting. She lived around the year 400 AD in Egypt, which was then part of the Byzantine Empire. Hypatia was an accomplished mathematician, astronomer, and philosopher, as well as a teacher.
Callisto – Of course, some ancient names feel and sound more modern. In myth, Callisto was one of the many beautiful women he pursued with disastrous consequences. She was turned into a bear and gave birth to a cub. Callisto lives on in the night sky in two forms. First, she’s Ursa Major. But second, the name Callisto was given to a moon of Jupiter. It’s a completely unexpected name and one that pairs well with Denali. Another rarity along those lines might be Thalassa.
Paloma – I’m not sure if Paloma is enough of a stand-out for you, and yet, it hits a lot of the right notes. It’s the Spanish word for dove, which associates it with peace, as well as the natural world. Pablo Picasso chose the name for his daughter, and is famous for painting doves, too. Avian names could be an entire list to ponder.
Angelou – Do you happen to be a fan of Maya Angelou? I think her surname – which she adopted in the 1950s while working as a calypso dancer – would make an amazing given name. But it’s so associated with the writer, you’d have to be prepared for questions about the inspiration behind your daughter’s name. Or maybe there’s another author you admire? Hawthorne, Salinger, and more authors’ surnames could all be great choices. With so many girls answering to Harper, this could be a great direction to consider.
Crescent – Here’s one that fits your not-really-used-as-a-name criteria beautifully, though there is a character in a popular YA series called Crescent Moon. (She’s a brilliant computer hacker whose character is based on Rapunzel.) Crescent is celestial, but also richly symbolic with ties to history over the millennia. After all, Mesopotamia developed in the Fertile Crescent. Like Sonnet, it might be a word, but it feels like it could easily become a name. Another name along these lines is Solstice.
Evening – I had Evening on my list of 13 cool middle names, but in this case, I’m tempted to promote Evening to given name status. It sounds so much like all of the popular Eve names – Evelyn, Eva, Evangeline. And yet the -ing ending is quite distinctive.
My favorites for you are the word names: Evening, Crescent, and Sonnet. But if you’d like something slightly more conventionally name-like, I think Callisto strikes the balance between a modern sound and roots as a given name.
Readers, what would you suggest for Bebe and her family?
I love the idea of going literary or celestial. Andromeda and Cassiopeia, Louisa for Alcott or Roswitha for Hrotsvitha the first female playwright, or Athena or Minerva for the goddesses.
Something a little old-fashioned and unusual, like Frederica or Irene or Clementine or Rosanna, would work well. “Denali and Clementine” — yep, I can see it.
A virtue, like Verity or Constance or Clarity (though many end in Y).
Acacia- I met a woman with this name once and had never heard it or knew it’s meaning (type of tree) but always comes to mind when someone asks for “unique nature names”
Djuna- love the sound, the spelling, and the twist on the familiar if underused Juno
I love the suggestions of Aurora (which unfortunately I struggle to pronounce) and Carina. I also like Cosima.
If Odessa appeals because of the Odyssey connection, then I suggest Medea instead. My husband wanted me to point out that Denali is such a beautiful place and Odessa…well…not so much.
I like Winona (another Native American name) and Yarrow (plant used by Native Americans). If you consider Sheba, there is a geography/history/travel adventure component there. Macaria, a utopian land less known than Narnia.
So, my list is:
Oh, and Calpurnia.
One more – Meridian.
What about Sequoia? It seems like it fits so well with Denali, and both evoke this feeling of earth and strength.
I love this post. I’ve got several names I think could be great: Artemis, Peregrine, Olympia, Quilla, Clio, Grove, Clotilde, Beryl, Leona, Enid, Phaedra, Fauna, Harbor, Meadow. My favorites for you are Leona, Enid, and Artemis.
Odessa reminds me of Odessa Cleveland, the actress who played Nurse Ginger on MASH. 🙂
kelsey D says
I also love Magnolia. 🙂 Interesting name but still has potential for more common shortened names if they end up wanting to go that route.
Denali and Odessa seem like a fabulous pairing as well.
What about Saffron?
Also Vesper or Sarai (I know, I know, you said no “I” endings)
C in DC says
The first one that sprang to mind was Elsinore but I think Odessa is even better.
Denali and Odessa sounds perfect! I also like Callisto and Aurora for you. Or what about Calypso?
For names with a connection to women in science history what about Curie (after Marie Curie) or Lise (Meitner)? What about Keller?
Male scientist names could work too — Newton? Nikola (Tesla)? What about Jules (Verne)?
I love Juniper for you. I also quite like Iris or Marigold. Another one I like for you is Journey. It might feel a little themed, but not too much.
Alyssa Thys says
I adore Callisto! It’s one of my favorites! I go back and forth between having Callisto or Calla on my top 10 list. I think it pairs quite nicely with Denali (which is super awesome as well)! Great suggestions!
Some rivers in the US that could make for an unexpected girl’s name: Cimarron, Taiya, Sabine, St Croix, Galena, Scarborough, Lyre, Washita, Tallulah, Roseau, Cedar, Carmel
Names with women scientist links: Franklin, Lovelace, Elion, Persis
Amarna is the name of an Egyptian town and of a period in Egyptian history when Pharaoh Akhenaten was in power. He seems to have been a monotheist. I always thought Amarna might make a good name.
I think this is my favorite suggestions so far. I like the idea of going with another unexpected and very meaningful place name. I know they didn’t pick Denali out of a hat — it must be meaningful to them in some way. i suggest they think of other places they’ve been and see if they can find another meaningful one.
How about Geneva? I think it has the same serene feel as Denali and it is the name of a city, but sounds like a given name as well.
My favorite from Abby’s list in Crescent and I love the suggestion of Aurora!
My cousin has kids named Denali and Winter.
What about Ahtna? It’s the indigenous name for the Copper River, also in Alaska, and from the same general linguistic group as the first peoples who named Denali.
If you’re uncomfortable with using two Native American names (assuming you yourself do not have direct ancestry, I suggest names after stars: Cassiopeia, Lyra, Andromeda, Carina. All have good nickname potential. Also maybe Aurora after the Aurora Borealis? Nice connection to the North.
Just realized that you DIDN’T want a theme ahaha. I still think Aurora is sweet, but my first suggestion missed the mark for sure 🙂
Love the suggestion of Verona! I know a 4yo by the name and it’s so striking and lovely.
Odessa seems like a perfect match. I also like the idea of Denali and Mazarine or Denali and Mariposa.
I know a sibset names Denali and Dakota…however, you don’t want a name starting with a D.
Deanna Collins says
My suggestions would be:
Verona (ties both to Italy and Shakespeare)
Jessamine (ties to nature)
Marina (ties to the sea)
I love the name Juniper Margaret.
I know a Sahara and I wonder if that might appeal to you?