Name Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.
We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!
You helped us with baby five, and we are in dire straights coming up with a name for our 7th (and last!) baby!
Our kiddos are named:
Susan “Zuzu” Olivia
Gwendolyn “Wendy” Mae
Kathleen “Kit” Felicity
Barnabas “Bear” Ransom
Our last baby is a boy, and we would like to avoid reusing initials (s,o,j,e,g,m,d,c,b,r) if possible. But we realize this might not be possible!
Some names we ruled out but were close:
- Zander (Alexander)
Names we are still considering:
We like heard of but uncommon names- nothing in the top 100!
Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.
Congratulations on your new son!
At first glance, you’ve ruled out an awful lot of letters. And yet, that still leaves us with A, H, I, L, N, P, Q, T, U, V, X, and Y – not too shabby! I’ve dropped Z and W as well … while I know they’re nicknames, my brain keeps hearing them as already taken.
Hugo came to mind immediately. I think it has that same gentlemanly, old world quality as Barnabas, with a touch of the cuddly Bear, too – a perfect brother name. Thatcher and Ulysses have plenty of appeal, too.
Before we get to firsts, can we talk about middles for a minute? First, I feel like repeating a middle initial for a first name might be more tolerable, if t comes to that. Second, since Olivia and Claire are Top 100 choices, I wonder if a great middle name that’s slightly popular could work? Because I keep coming back to Xavier.
Now, on to some new first name possibilities!
A NAME FOR BABY SEVEN
There are so many great A names for boys! Asa, Arlo, Abraham, August, Abel … But I’m going to suggest Archer. It’s a cousin to Thatcher, but comes with built-in nickname Archie. I can also imagine Arthur called Archie, though the sounds aren’t perfectly there.
A short, strong nature name, Heath rose sharply in the late 1960s, thanks to a television Western called The Big Valley. If it hadn’t caught on then, it could be huge now in our River/Rowan moment – and that makes it a perfect option for a child born now.
It has a great meaning – fiery – and a long history of sparing use. Plus, nicknames from Iggy to Ike to Nate to Nash make it easier to wear than it first appears.
An obvious brother for Barnabas, especially because it has its own built-in animal kingdom nickname: Leo! Lionel and Leonel work, too.
If surnames are on the table, how about Nelson? A long list of notable Nelsons make this name feel more traditional than modern surname favorites.
While we’re on the surname topic, would Paxton work? Traditional P names for boys, like Philip and Peter, are underused gems worthy of consideration, too. But I can imagine Paxton as a great first or middle with your kids’ names.
This could be great, except … Quentin means five. Is that too out-of-sequence? I can’t decide, but the sound is great. (And I’ve certainly known plenty of boys with variations of the name who weren’t fifth children!)
I think Thaddeus and Barnabas share the same vibe. It could shorten to Tad, Thad, and maybe Todd or Tate.
From your list, Hugo Thatcher is immediately my top pick. I think it goes so well with your older children’s names, and – amazingly! – doesn’t repeat an initial.
If I were choosing from my suggestions, I’m most drawn to Leland Xavier, Leo for short – or maybe Lane or even Lex?
My fav from your list is Ulysses. I wonder about the nickname though. I’d likely use something like UU and that’s pretty close to Zuzu.
My fav from Abby’s list is Ignatius. Love it.
I’m also digging Peregrine nn Perry, Pip, or Rin. I love that there is another animal image — here, falcon– shared between the boys.
Tobias nn Toby
August nn Gus
Nathaniel nn Nate
I second Laurence! And Leland! And Laszlo! Maybe Leopold? Clarence if you forgo the initials preference.
I’ve always liked Adam Benjamin.
How about Laurence?
Lyndreth – Lindy, Dre
Ignatius isn’t really my style but I surprisingly kinda dig it with this sibling set! Nash is my favorite nickname option but Nate and Iggy are great too. I love how much flexibility this name offers. Leland and Hugo are great too!
I also want to suggest Orson nickname Sonny. It breaks the repeating letter rules but I think it has that offbeat, not too popular vibe you’re going for. Plus it means bear which is a sweet connection to brother Bear 🙂
Arthur, Rufus, Jasper
Another Emily says
I love Barnabas! Here are a few more ideas:
Peter or Phineas
What fantastic names! I love Hugo! Thatcher and Ulysses are pretty great too. I don’t think you need to look farther, but just in case:
A: Artemas (“Art” “Marty” “Tommy”), Ajax, Augustine or Augustus (“Gus”), Ambrose, Antony (“Tito” “Ant” “Tony”).
H: Harvey or Hardy
P: Peregrine (“Perrin””Pippin”). Patrick also seems like a good fit with Diana and Wendy and Kit.
T: Tycho! Also Tarquin or Timon.
X: Xavier (“Xave”)
If you’re open to repeating a letter used in a middle:
C: Cyrus, Crispin, Charles
R: Rufus, Robin
I have always loved the name Aaron and it’s my 40 yr old sons name!!!
Erin Beth says
Peregrine “Perry” “Pip” “Pippin”
Lysander “Zander” “Andy”
Alistair “Al” “Alec”