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CLASSIC AND COMPLETE
Em writes:
My husband and I both have long, fairly unusual first names that can kind of be a hassle. Because of this, it is very important to us that our children’s names are more traditional. We like short names that don’t really have a nickname and people will immediately hear and “get,” without having to repeat/spell.
I am due with our second child at the end of November, a delivery surprise. It feels harder to find a name this time around.
Our daughter’s name is Nora Jane. I wish we’d chosen a different middle name, because Jane would have been a really good name for another daughter! But we don’t want to re-use it.
If Nora had been a boy, our favorite name was James Connor. (Connor is a family name.) But we have good friends with a James, nickname Jamie, now, and I feel like it’s not really our name anymore, if that makes sense.
We have a long, kind of difficult last name, too, sounds like Hil-de-bran.
For a girl, we have discussed:
- Leah – but it seems like everyone spells it differently
- Lila – again, lots of spellings
- Ella – maybe too popular, and with our last name it sounds like the writer’s name
- Blair – love this name, but my husband has a unisex name and doesn’t like it, so he’s very reluctant to use anything unisex for our kids (though I don’t think Blair is?)
- Claire – except we have a niece named Clara
- Molly – I think it’s too cute for an adult, so it’s out, but I do like it
For a boy, we have discussed:
- Adam – but I’m not sure if it’s the one
- Eric – feels maybe a little dated
- Andrew – but only Andrew, not Andy/Drew
- Paul – I feel like everyone says this name differently, and some of the pronunciations make me a little stabby
- Jon/John – But I really only like Jon and I know that breaks my rules, plus my husband prefers John
- Liam – is it weird to have an Irish first name with a German last name? Sort of bothers me that it’s the #1 name, but we’ve never met a Liam
We sort of just keep going around and around.
Please help!
Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.

FINDING NAMES LIKE NORA
Abby replies:
Congratulations on your second!
Nora is a great name, and I can see that it might be a little hard to follow. After all, it checks all those boxes exactly.
I think you do have some strong candidates on your current lists. The ideal choice will be:
- Complete and compact
- Clearly gendered
- Current in style
- Maybe a little bit sophisticated
- Possibly have a strong L sound
From your current lists, I think there are some clear front runners:
- Adam for a boy. No tricky nicknames, easily pronounced and spelled, and style-wise, it’s a classic on a bit of an upswing.
- Or maybe Liam for a boy? Popular names – even the #1 name! – can be great choices, and Liam meets every one of your criteria.
- Leah for a girl. Yes, it is sometimes spelled Lea or Lia, but Leah is the overwhelming favorite. And it does meet every point on your wish list.
But let’s see if we can come up with some fresh ideas, too.
NAMES LIKE NORA FOR A DAUGHTER
ALICE
Simple and complete, sweet for a child and sophisticated for an adult. Plus there’s an L sound! Nora and Alice might be perfect together.
AVA
A Top Ten name, yes, but with a strong and complete sound.
GRACE
If you love Jane, but can’t use it, Grace might be an obvious choice.
LILY
I hear you about Lila/Lyla/Lilah and so on. Lily is close in sound, but has one most popular spelling. Lily also reminds me of Molly.
RUTH
A substitute for Claire, strong and complete.
WILLA
Lots of L sound in this one, plus it’s a distinctive name with only one spelling.
BOY NAMES LIKE NORA
ARLO
It’s very current and less classic, but I wonder if a name like Arlo might appeal?
DEAN
A name with plenty of history and a strong, unmistakable sound.
JUDE
The Beatles song keeps this name current, but it’s a Biblical boy name with history to spare.
MAX
A solid, traditional, and brief choice.
MILES
Possibly an alternative to James that’s just a little less expected.
SAM/SAMUEL
Okay, this breaks the rules in the sense that nearly every Sam is a Samuel. But … never every Samuel is a Sam. Sam and Nora are great together, so I wonder if it’s worth it?
Overall, I do think Adam and Liam are great choices. I’d add Sam/Samuel to that list, possibly with James as a middle name.
For a daughter, if Leah isn’t quite right, I’d put Willa next on the list. Willa Ruth, maybe?




I think Alice and Jude are perfect suggestions!
Nora and Alice feel like sister names!
Other ideas:
Tessa
Rose
Eliza
Stella
Anna
Simon
Lucas
Henry
Ian
Peter
“A” said exactly what I was thinking for boys ….. Grant, Clark, Reid and Elliott.
I was also wondering about Julian as James and John adjacent with a l sound…. Nora and Julian.
Your girl list is more puzzling since you range from Blair to Jane. Nora straddles that modern / Uber traditional divide gracefully. Finding other girl names that do that balance so precisely is hard. Evelyn isn’t short but sounds great with Nora. Charlotte is 2 syllables. Rose is quintessential. Violet sounds great as well.
Best of luck.
Nora Jane is such a pretty combination!
From your existing list, I especially like Adam, Eric, and Paul. Any of them could work with Connor as a middle name.
I love Abby’s suggestion of Lily, which seems like a perfect fit for your preferences. Grace and Ruth are also lovely.
For your girl’s list, I would add:
Chloe
Lucy
Sophie
And for a boy, you might consider:
Ethan
Evan
Levi
Sorry, just realized you can’t use Claire or Clara. I also thought of Della and Stella.
I quite like Eric.
I personally don’t think Blair stylistically goes with Nora.
Other ideas:
Nora & Ada(h)
Nora & Clara or Claire
Nora & Dinah
Nora & Dottie
Nora & Edna
Nora & Edith
Nora & Faye
Nora & Greta
Nora & Harriet
Nora & Ida
Nora & Ina
Nora & Joan
Nora & Kate
Nora & Loma
Nora & Metta
Nora & Rita
Nora & Sarah
Nora & Tessa
Nora & Una
Nora & Vera
Blair sounds clearly feminine to me – it may be technically unisex but I would be surprised to meet a boy Blair so I don’t think it would cause confusion.
And I know a little Andrew who exclusively goes by his full name, so I don’t think it will be automatically shortened if you don’t want it to be.
I personally would go for a long common name with several nn’s. Is your and your husband’s names inflexible?
Nora is one of my favorite names so beautiful! I think all of your girl names feel not quite right according to your own criteria. I will say on your boy names I think Nora and Paul together are lovely. I also have been a teacher for the last nine years and every Andrew I’ve met has been Andrew, not Andy or Drew, and it’s never been an issue.
From Abby’s suggestions, my favorites are Alice or Grace for a girl or Samuel or Max for a boy. Nora and Alice or Nora and Max sound particularly perfect to me.
Some other ideas:
Nora and Rose
Nora and Mary
Nora and Helen
Nora and Mae
Nora and Anne
Nora and Peter
Nora and Felix
Nora and Phillip
Nora and Seth
Nora and Hugo