Name Help: Girl namesName Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.

We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!

Jessica writes:

I’m a 1980s Jessica married to a Michael. Our siblings’ names are every bit as predictable: I have a twin sister Jennifer, plus an older brother named Joshua. Michael’s siblings are Ryan, Sarah, and Nicole. (Michael’s sister, Sarah, married a Michael, too, and my brother Josh married a Julie. It’s like someone just named us from a rack of personalized license plates from the year 1987.)

We’re expecting a daughter and want her name to be more timeless, and a little bit different, too.

All of our siblings are married with kids, for a total of eleven niece and nephew names we can’t consider: Gabriella, Lily, Olivia, Piper, Sophie, and Zoey, plus Caleb, Cameron, Landon, Levi, and Wyatt.

That’s okay, though, because, like I said, I think we’d like something different. The question is how different?

My list is: Arden, Bellamy, Ingrid, Scout.

His list is: Luna, Willow, Emery.

The only name we sort of agree on is Presley. Except neither of us is an Elvis fan. We just like the sound. And yet I feel like it’s the kind of trendy name we’re trying to avoid. All of the others are okay – but it’s not like we each have a favorite or two we’re really fighting for.

My only rule is no J names, even though I think Juniper is another name that I could love.

Where do we begin?

Please read on for my reply, and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.

Dear Jessica –

Congratulations on your daughter! And oh, I hear you about names that are stuck in their decade. It’s not a bad thing, necessarily. But I know about a dozen women my age named Heather, and a bunch of Allisons and Michelles, too, so much so that I refer to them by first-and-last name. “Oh, I’m going to see if Heather Smith is free to join us when we plan that lunch for Allison Jones.”

So I understand – and applaud – your attempts to find something just a little different for your daughter.

And yet, a couple of things jump out at me.

Let’s talk numbers for a minute …

First, it’s important to know that no name is as popular as the #1 names of generations past. In 2017, just over 1% of all newborn girls in the US were named Emma, the #1 name. In 1977, about 3.5% of all girls received the top name – Jennifer. (A name as common as Emma would only rank about #10 by 1977 standards.)

And in 1937? About 5.5% of all girls were named Mary. A name as common as Emma would come in around #12 by those standards.

So even if you name your daughter Emma, odds are that she won’t feel quite the same way that you and your husband and siblings might.

Luna and Willow rank in the current US Top 100. Emery is just outside the current Top 100. They’re not Top Ten at all, but it’s worth noting that you’ll probably meet other children with these names – or at least your co-worker will mention her cousin’s new daughter with the same name and you’ll overhear it on a television character and … you get the idea.

Scout and Bellamy aren’t in the current US Top 1000. Arden and Ingrid are relatively uncommon. Presley is right around #200. That seems like a sweet spot, doesn’t it?

The Elvis Factor

Can you name your baby Presley if you’re not an Elvis fan?

My reaction is yes, of course. If you accept that some people will ask if you’re going to Graceland. Or sing “Love Me Tender.” Or, or, or …

Most pop culture references fade. But Elvis? He’s the King. He died in 1977 – but he last scored a #1 hit in 2002. That’s the same year his music was featured in Disney’s Lilo and Stitch. There’s every reason to believe your Presley would be aware of the singer, as would her peers.

That said, over 1500 girls were named Presley in 2017. No way were all of their parents superfans. And it’s been in heavy use for a decade. My guess is that a Presley born today would experience her name as perfectly mainstream, and not especially tied to the singer because it’s relatively popular. So there are upsides when a name catches on.

A Few More Surname Names …

You’ve probably looked at dozens of name lists, but let’s see if we can come up with a few fresh suggestions.

Ingrid feels a little different, but Scout, Arden, and Emery are solidly surname-style names. So is Presley, of course. The strength of a surname name is that it can be very rare as a given name, but instantly familiar to all.

First, how about some surnames nobody is really using, but would wear well?

Bellamy – It’s just outside of the current Top 1000, but that Belle sound makes it feel familiar.

Ellery – Emery always makes me think of Ellery. It shortens to Ellie, but the whole name feels accessible, too.

Maguire – Maguire sounds distinctive and different, but it comes with built-in nickname Maggie.

Romilly – Quite rare, but with history, and at least two easy nicknames: Milly and Romy.

Or maybe you’d like to consider something north of Emery/Presley in terms of popularity, but not quite that obscure:

Blair – As tailored as Claire, but with a preppy, unisex sensibility. Also in this category: Sloane, but it’s nearly as popular as Presley.

Haven – Okay, it’s a word name, not a surname. But it shares the same tailored style.

Sutton – Rising quickly, thanks to appealing Broadway-turned-small-screen star Sutton Foster.

Overall, I’m tempted to cheer for Maguire, maybe. Or maybe Romilly.

But I think the right name might already be on your list: Presley. If you can overlook the Elvis connection, that is.

Readers, over to to you. Would you use the name Presley?


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  1. I think a surname name that is familiar from before this decade and below the top 100 would be a good target. I like Reese, Blair, and Ellery already mentioned. I’ll also suggest Greer, Lane, Darcy, and Paige. Or a non-surname with a tailored vibe would work — Tess or Meredith, or I like Cecily suggested by pps. Presley doesn’t really feel “timeless” to me, but if you like it, go with it.

  2. Scout, Willow, Emery, Luna and Arden are all names with a very contemporary feel – they are having a “moment” right now. Surnames on girls are a current trend that may or may not last. If it doesn’t, those names will definitely give away their era! If timeless matters, it might not be such a good idea to go that route.

    Timeless, unusual and simple in sound could be:
    Astrid, Annette, Alix, Bridget, Carla, Daria, Gretchen, Hester, Heidi, Idony, Joscelin, Kay, Laurel, Maren, Maelys, Orla, Rhoda, Una

    French, German and medieval names are with a look, I think. They often have the non- frilly sound you seem to prefer while still being recognisable names that have never been trendy.

  3. If you’re going for uncommon, don’t pick a name that shortens easily into a super common nickname such as Bella or Ellie. Emery is fairly rare, but sounds a whole lot like Emily and Emma, which are not. A name like Willow or Ingrid sounds a lot more distinctive than the masses of Lily and Addie. Kaedin may be rare, but not when you factor in Cayden, Kaidon, Ayden, Jayden, etc. Does Arden sound as special to you if she’ll share her classroom with Aiden? Think about whether you want the name to have a rare sound. If you don’t care either way, great! If you do care, go by sound more than an individual name’s ranking.

    Name suggestions: Brigid, Tamsin, Tatum, Eliza, Lilith, Maeve, Reese, Arbor.

  4. I have nieces named Chezney and Journey. Those seem like they might appeal to you. Recognizable but not common. I would also recommend Ramona. It feels ready for a comeback and Romy is a gorgeous nn.

  5. Haven’t read the other comments yet, so maybe someone already suggested these…

    Instead of Presley, how about Paisley?

    Instead of Bellamy or Emery, what about Cecily? Or Elodie? Briony?

    Ingrid is wonderful! It reminds me of Greta.

    Love Arden, too! (I know a fifth grade one who is so elegant and lady-like…) Do you like Kerensa? Or Irene?

    Luna brings to mind June (or Junia!).

    I know a few Willows; one has a sister named Magnolia (who goes by Maggie).

    Scout… Let’s see… Briar? Joan? Pearl?

    Have you given any thought to what you might name a second girl? Or a son? It *might* influence any decision you make now for this precious daughter.

    Congrats and best wishes!