Finding Vintage Names like Esther for Baby Number Two

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IT TOOK EVERY LAST SECOND TO NAME OUR DAUGHTER

Danielle writes:

We really struggled to name our daughter, but we both love the name we eventually chose: Esther Madeline. We pronounce Madeline to rhyme with line, sign, and fine.

I can’t believe it, but we’re having even more trouble naming our second. We will find out sex in a few more weeks, but given how hard it was to name Esther, I don’t want to wait.

We both come from big, extended families and also work with children. Our general feeling is that we’d prefer our child’s name doesn’t remind us of anyone we already know well. But we’re not the kind of people who can make up a name or choose something futuristic. Ideas like choosing a place that means something to us, etc. just don’t feel right.

It has been a relief that people react to Esther’s name with so much enthusiasm. I was very worried that others would call it an old lady name, not in a good way.

We have a long list of names we like, but have ruled out because they’re taken by close family or too strongly associated with a child we’ve known in the past.

NAMES WE CAN’T USE

• For boys: Theodore, Benjamin, Jasper, Max, Charlie, Owen, Philip, Oliver, Henry, Michael, Nathan, Nicholas, Joseph, Jack, Matthew, Miles, George
• For girls: Charlotte, Emily, Anna, Katherine, Eliza, Sarah, Amelia, Louise, Josephine, Colette, Margot, Frances, Beatrice, Cecilia, Rosalie

A name we seriously considered for Esther was Marjorie, but it felt like it had a lot of baggage. I don’t think that’s necessarily changed, so we still probably wouldn’t use it, but we do like it.

We prefer names that are used in full, so Esther is always Esther, not Essie/Estie, etc. It’s another reason we probably wouldn’t consider a name like Benjamin, because it’s always (at least in my experience) going to be Ben.

Our last name starts and ends with an S, and sounds like Spokes, so names that end with S like James or Thomas don’t sound right.

For a middle name, we’re considering Daniel for a boy, but we don’t have anything in mind for a girl yet.

Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.

DISTINCTIVE NAMES FOR ESTHER’S NEW SIBLING

Abby replies:

Congratulations on your new baby!

When one parent works with children, it always feels like lots of names are automatically ruled out. Double that, and it probably feels like there are no names left, right?

The good news? It’s not actually a case of choosing a completely one-of-one name. It’s just a question of finding something that you haven’t heard yet.

Esther ranks in the current US Top 200 and has since 2016. There are lots of vintage names like Esther with similar popularity rankings that could possibly work. We’ll focus on names with a strong sound that are unlikely to be shortened.

I’m sure at least some of these will automatically bring to mind another child that you’ve known. But I feel like this list came together pretty quickly, so hopefully one of these – or something suggested in the comments – will be just right for your new baby.

BOY NAMES LIKE ESTHER

ANTHONY

I know that Anthony can shorten to Tony. But in this generation? Anthony is almost always used in full. It gives a sort of polished, gentlemanly vibe. (Thanks to Bridgerton, at least in part.)

CALVIN

Again, Calvin might be Cal. But it’s more like Essie for Esther – optional, not automatic.

GRAHAM

I’m not sure Graham matches Esther’s era perfectly, but I think it has the same vibe – traditional, unexpected, with a strong sound.

EDWIN

I love Edwin with Esther – as long as you don’t mind the repeating E initial.

OTTO

With names like Arlo and Leo so popular, Otto fits right in. But it also reads a little old school.

PETER

Another timeless classic, currently underused.

REX

There’s a bite to Rex, a strong and distinctive sound.

VINCENT

Used in full, Vincent is traditional, creative, and slightly unexpected.

GIRL NAMES LIKE ESTHER

DOROTHY

Elmo’s goldfish is named Dorothy. And with Wicked in theaters so recently, it’s hard to not think of Oz. Overall, I think this helps us hear Dorothy as a vintage favorite that succeeds for a daughter born in 2026. Bonus: it shares the rhythm of Marjorie.

HARRIET

Believe it or not, Harriet fails to chart in the current US Top 1000. Despite this, it’s a name that everyone knows. I think it could be perfect for Esther’s sister.

HELEN

Helen is a little more common, but not by much. It fits with vintage names like Esther: serious, established, and a little bit sepia-toned, too.

IRENE

One hundred years ago, Irene read like a spirited, fresh name for a daughter. I think that makes it a perfect choice for Esther’s sister today.

MABEL

A vintage name on the upswing, Mabel benefits from the popularity of other -bel ending names, as well as that bright Mae syllable.

OLIVE

Olivia is the #1 name in the country. Olive is her understated sister.

VERA

With two powerful meanings – faith and truth – Vera is a brief, complete name that carries a lot of significance.

VIVIAN

One of the first names that came to mind, Vivian combines a memorable sound with enough vintage energy to match Esther.

Overall, I’m really drawn to Edwin or Peter for a son. Edwin Daniel or Peter Daniel, maybe?

For a girl, I like the idea of Dorothy Irene. But I also want to suggest using Marjorie as a middle name. I wonder if you’d like Helen Marjorie?

Readers, over to you! Can you suggest some vintage names like Esther for a daughter and a son?