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Name Help: A Brother for Magnolia

December 13, 2014 By appellationmountain 27 Comments

Name Help

Name Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every Saturday, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.

We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!

T writes:

Could I offer up a name challenge for the Saturday series?

We are having a boy.

We already have a girl named Magnolia, nickname Nola.

For a boy, our top two names are:

  • Sebastian, nickname Bash or Baz
  • Augustus, nickname Gus

The middle names will be James.  Our last name is one-syllable, and a color.

We dislike how popular Sebastian is, but love the name so it remains a frontrunner. My husband loves Augustus. I would prefer just August but August seems cheesy with our last name.

Other names we have considered include Hugo, Everett, Evander, Desmond, Caspian, and Jasper. We like longer, more formal names have have an off-beat nickname.

Read on for my response – and please leave your own thoughts in the comments!

Hi T –

There are so many interesting questions in your letter!

How Popular is Too Popular?

It sounds like Sebastian would be The Name.  It meets all of your criteria: a formal name with an off-beat nickname.  And it pairs beautifully with your daughter’s name.  Magnolia and Sebastian.  Nola and Baz.

So let me start out by saying that I don’t think you should rule out Sebastian at all.  There are good reasons to use a very popular name.

I’d make that argument even if Sebastian were a Top Ten name, but here’s the thing: the name ranked #45 in 2013.  That’s just about 7,500 boys – many fewer than the 18,000-plus named Noah.  Because our children receive an ever-expanding number of names, and fewer receive the most popular names, the chances of duplication keep going down.

My kids are almost-10 and just-turned-6.  We know a lot of kids, but only one Sebastian.

Still not convinced?  Or maybe you know just one Sebastian, too, but that’s enough to make it feel awkward?

Does a Noun Last Name Mean Avoiding all Noun First Names?

I love August, and the name feels like a great brother name for Magnolia.

You’re rejected it because your surname is a color.  But Magnolia shares the same colorful surname, right?  Has it been an issue for your daughter?

My advice to friends in a similar situation: avoid Jade Green, but feel free to use Lily Green.  It’s not nouns that are out.  It’s only nouns that seem to create a commonly heard phrase that are problematic.

More Possibilities

Of course, both of these issues – how popular is too popular, and when does a first name clash with a surname – are really personal choices.

So let’s assume both of those are dealbreakers, and look at other possibilities.

  • Augustine, Augusten – You’ve mentioned that your husband likes Augustus.  It’s a grand name, and seems to fit all of your criteria.  But you’re not in love.  Would one of these forms feel like a better fit?  Both of them get you to Gus, are even more uncommon than August/Augustus, and have a tailored, literary feel, as opposed to the Imperial Augustus or the calendar August.
  • Nicodemus – The nickname Nico seems like it might suit.  Nicholas is classic, but maybe too ordinary.  Happily, there’s no shortage of Nic- names.  Nicodemus appears in the New Testament, and yet the name has never been common.  There’s also the Italian Niccolo – a possibility given the popularity of Matteo.
  • Benedict – I don’t think this one is quite as cool as others on your list, though Benedict is definitely an older name attracting lots of attention lately.  (Thank you, Mr. Cumberbatch.)  Ben is the default nickname, but I like the idea of Ned.  Nola and Ned – it sounds like something from a storybook, doesn’t it?  But I’m not sure this is your style.
  • Ludovic – If you’re intent on avoiding popular, how about Ludovic?  It’s a form of Louis (really!), and has never been common in the US.  Nicknames Luc/Luke, Ludo, and Vic are all baked in.
  • Maxfield – Gus always reminds me of Max, so I’m tempted to suggest one of the less common forms of the name.  Maxfield is one; Maximilian is another.
  • Raphael – Maybe Raphael or Rafael, with the nickname Rafe?
  • Ezekiel – I feel like so many of the names on this list lean Old Testament or saintly, so I hesitate to include Ezekiel.  But Zeke is so appealing.  Magnolia and Ezekiel, Nola and Zeke. And, of course, nowadays plenty of boys answer to Isaac and Elijah, with no regard to spiritual considerations – so I don’t think this is necessarily an issue.
  • Leonidas – One of the more offbeat formal name options for Leo, a name boosted by the popularity of the historical-action movie 300.

Let’s have a poll about the popularity of Sebastian – I’m curious to see what others think!

Even after going through all of these possibilities – plus about a dozen that didn’t make my list – I still think Sebastian matches Magnolia best, though Leonidas and Nicodemus are close seconds.

I’d love to hear others’ ideas about the right name for Magnolia’s brother – and the potential issues of choosing a popular name!

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Comments

  1. Alix says

    December 19, 2014 at 12:23 AM

    I LOVE the nickname Bash. Is there any way to get to it other than Sebastian?

    Reply
    • appellationmountain says

      December 20, 2014 at 8:55 AM

      It might be more of a stretch, but Barrett?

      Reply
  2. Ashley says

    December 15, 2014 at 1:56 PM

    I really like Abby’s suggestion of Nola & Baz (Sebastian)! I would go with that.

    A few more ideas:
    Ignatius nicknamed Iggy (Nola & Iggy)
    Tarquin nicknamed Tarqy (Nola & Tarqy)
    Riordan nicknamed Rio (Nola & Rio)

    Reply
  3. Tracy says

    December 15, 2014 at 5:01 AM

    I like Julian(Jules) and Jasper from pp suggestions.
    I will add: Leon, Hendricks, Fletcher, Gabe, Winslow, Louis and
    Maddox.

    I too would keep Sebastian as top contender.

    Reply
    • Amy says

      December 16, 2014 at 7:21 AM

      I love Jules too!

      Reply
  4. Noelle says

    December 14, 2014 at 2:59 PM

    I love Sebastian nn Baz/Bash but if you feel it’s too popular how about Balthazar. It’s not as popular and you still have the nn Baz or Bash.

    Reply
    • appellationmountain says

      December 15, 2014 at 5:43 AM

      That’s a really good thought, Noelle!

      Reply
  5. sarah bee says

    December 14, 2014 at 2:58 PM

    When I read through the top 100 baby names there are some names that strike me as regionally polarizing, and Sebastian is one of those names. I live in Texas, and I have met 1 Sebastian in my life. By contrast I know a handful of Augustine/August’s. They are both great names, and you really can’t go wrong with either

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  6. Kim says

    December 13, 2014 at 11:25 PM

    Me, I’m not a fan of alliterative subsets, and Nico and Nola is too close to Nick and Nora for me. But I love Sebastian. I live in a very diverse naming environment (I’m thinking over a total of 7 preschool classes, and the only repeats were Hudson and Ava,) and there haven’t been any Sebastians. And with those nicknames, I honestly think you won’t have to worry about popularity. I love it- big formal name with a one-syllable noun surname, with zippy nicknames as well.

    Reply
  7. Andrea Y says

    December 13, 2014 at 9:37 PM

    I know two boys with the name Sebastian. Maybe you’ll share similar tastes with their mothers so I’ll tell you their brothers’ names.

    Abraham (lots of great nicknames with that one)
    Malachi (goes by Kai)

    Other family:
    Nicolas Orlando (goes by Lando)
    Jubal

    I love the name Sebastian and don’t think it feels really popular–certainly worlds away from Eli (my own son’s name–I got over the too popular thing really quickly when we looked at our little dude and knew his name was supposed to be Eli).

    I adore your daughter’s name. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Reply
  8. Katybug says

    December 13, 2014 at 7:29 PM

    If you like Caspian, what about Crispin?

    Reply
  9. Katybug says

    December 13, 2014 at 7:27 PM

    I vote for Evander! It’s so much like Magnolia–familiar but different, similar to a classic but with its own charm. Nickname Van is great with Nola. If you like Nico, I suggest Nicolin as a long form. It’s my BIL’s name and pronounced like Nicholas but with a -lin ending. It has that same familiar but different feel as Magnolia.

    Reply
  10. KatieB says

    December 13, 2014 at 7:14 PM

    I find it helpful to look at how a name ranks as a percentage of total births. Sebastian ranked 45th in 2013 but it only accounted for 0.375% of male births. That means that one baby boy in every 267 male births was named Sebastian in 2013. If you think about how large a class is in school is, say you have a class of 500 half of those being boys, you could expect a Sebastian to be the only one in his grade in school.

    Reply
    • SilentOne says

      December 13, 2014 at 7:47 PM

      I usually think of popularity in terms of percentage as well, but I usually take that percentage and look up names that were given to about that percentage of kids when
      I was born. In 1986, 0.375% would be between the popularity of Jordan and Bradley. I think I’ve known about 3 of each during my life.

      Reply
      • SilentOne says

        December 21, 2014 at 11:19 PM

        About 3 each in my age bracket, that is.

        Reply
    • appellationmountain says

      December 13, 2014 at 10:25 PM

      Excellent math, KatieB!

      Reply
  11. waltzingmorethanmatilda says

    December 13, 2014 at 6:15 PM

    I think if you love Sebastian, then you should use it – it’s popular, but not crazy popular. Magnolia and Caspian sound absolutely gorgeous together, so that would be my preference.

    Reply
  12. Angela from Maine says

    December 13, 2014 at 4:11 PM

    I know a little Nico, and I love the name. I also really like Benedict, either with Ben or Ned. I also loved the Nancy Drew books, so Ned has a special place in my heart!

    Reply
  13. Rebecca says

    December 13, 2014 at 11:03 AM

    Love Sebastian with either nn! I wouldn’t call it “too popular.” I also really like Jasper.

    Other ideas:
    Leander (Leo, andy)
    Sullivan (sully, van)
    Dietrich (deke, ricky)
    Lachlann (lockie)

    Reply
  14. Amy says

    December 13, 2014 at 10:21 AM

    I love Everett nn Rhett.

    Other ideas:

    Hadrian
    Constantine
    Almanzo
    Corentin
    Nathanael nn Thane
    Thaddeus
    Castiel
    Apollo
    Marius
    Joaquin
    Pax (maybe this would have to be a nickname for something)

    Reply
    • Amy says

      December 14, 2014 at 9:45 AM

      Montague

      Reply
  15. Colleen says

    December 13, 2014 at 9:03 AM

    I have never met a Sebastian but it’s a wonderful name and sounds great with Magnolia. I think it’s perfect for you but I also like Augustine and Raphael from the other suggestions. Good luck!

    Reply
  16. julie says

    December 13, 2014 at 5:04 AM

    Abraham (Bram), Orlando, Alastair (Dare), Gulliver, Solomon, Thaddeus

    Reply
  17. Brooke Cussans says

    December 13, 2014 at 4:52 AM

    Love Sebastian nn Bash!

    Sebastian always makes me think of Dominic (nn Nic) although it’s only slightly less popular than Sebastian so you’d still have the same problem.

    Other suggestions that are closer in popularity/use to Magnolia include:
    Broderick (nn’s Brody, Rick)
    Roderick (nn’s Rod or Rick)
    Lucien (nn Luc)
    Truman (nn Tru)
    Thaddeus (nn Dex)
    Leandro (nn Leo)
    and Rafferty (nn Rafe) or Thackery (nn Ace?)- both of which are much rarer, but sound great with Magnolia!

    Reply
    • appellationmountain says

      December 13, 2014 at 1:30 PM

      Thackery! LOVE Thackery! So many great Th names …

      Reply
  18. Allure says

    December 13, 2014 at 4:17 AM

    I much prefer Caspian or Evander, over Sebastian or Augustus. By far.

    They are also more unique and stylish, similar to Magnolia.

    Reply
  19. Rivkah says

    December 13, 2014 at 3:41 AM

    The name that really jumped out to me, on your list, was Jasper. It has an old-fashioned appeal, and like Magnolia, is a nature name at base. I like the idea of a flower name for a girl and a mineral one for a boy. 🙂 Plus, it’s a wonderful character in the Five Little Peppers books. You can’t really go wrong with that list, but Jasper is definitely my fave!

    Reply

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