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Name Help: A Sister for Marie

February 10, 2023 By appellationmountain 25 Comments

Nlame Help: Sister for MarieName Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.

We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!

Heather writes:

We found the perfect name for our daughter, Marie Henley. Henley is a family name on my husband’s side. We considered using it for her first name, but we decided we wanted something more classic.

Now we’re expecting another daughter and we’re coming up blank. We want a name that is traditional, only has only spelling/pronunciation, and isn’t everywhere.

We ruled out Katherine because of Catherine/Kathryn. But also because we’re not crazy about the idea of nicknames. (It’s okay if they happen, but we don’t want to plan for them.) My husband is Matthew-not-Matt, and it’s a losing battle!

If Marie was a boy, we’d talked about Graham and Seth, but weren’t really settled on either name.

Our last name sounds like Thomas plus ek.

Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.

Abby replies:

Congratulations on your new daughter!

This is an interesting challenge. Because, yes, at first glance, lots of names work just as beautifully as Marie.

Except that classic names tend to have nicknames. Lots of them! Elizabeth, Victoria, Beatrice, Margaret … part of the reason to choose them might be all that flexibility.

And finding something with just one spelling can be tough, too. Sophia/Sofia, Amelia/Emilia … it’s sort of surprising how often a name had to be crossed off my short list.

Popularity is tougher to pin down, but in this case, it helps that you’re looking for a name with just one spelling. It’s tough to gauge the actual use of a name like Anna/Ana/Anne because, well, you’d have to tally up all of these possibilities.

But this community is up for exactly this kind of challenge!

Let’s find some not-too-common, traditional choices for a daughter that have only one obvious spelling and pronunciation and just happen to sound great with big sister Marie’s name, too.

A SISTER FOR MARIE

ALICE

It’s a sweet name, forever Wonderland. But plenty of Alices have been women of significant accomplishment, too. Alice Walker, Alice Paul, Alice Munro. To name just a few …

FRANCES

Okay, Francis is another spelling. But in the twenty-first century, we’ve pretty firmly settled on Frances for girls, Francis for boys. (The current Pope helps drive that home, I think.) And so Frances seems like the kind of underused classic that could be exactly right for Marie’s sister.

JANE

It’s tempting to suggest lots of feminine forms of John. But so many of them – think Joanna/Johanna/Joanne or Jean/Jeanne – seem like there’s room for confusion. While we do sometimes see Jayne, it feels like Jane is the obvious, enduring choice – literary thanks to Austen, trail-blazing thanks to Goodall and Addams, and legendary thanks to Calamity Jane.

JULIA

It’s easy to forget that Julia belongs with classic names. But it’s an ancient Roman name, mentioned in the New Testament, used by Shakespeare. From nineteenth century author and poet Julia Ward Howe to Oscar winning actress Julia Roberts,

KATE

If you’ve ruled out Katherine/Catherine/Kathryn because of the challenges of nicknames, what if you just … skipped right to the nickname? Kate is nearly as classic as Katherine, but feels brief and complete.

LOUISE

Nicely French, just like Marie.

RUTH

Spare and serious Ruth is also playful, upbeat Ruthie. Maybe that’s the type of built-in nickname you’d rather avoid, but I think Ruth and Marie are great together.

VERA

My first thought was Veronica. For a long name, it’s almost always spelled exactly like this – at least in the US. But I wonder if the shorter Vera isn’t a better match for Marie?

Overall, Alice was my very first thought, and I still think it’s perfection with Marie. But if that’s a little too popular, the rest of this list works as substitutes. I’m especially drawn to Marie and Ruth – two timeless names that feel just right on a daughter, but equally appropriate on a woman of consequence.

Readers, over to you – what would you name a sister for Marie Henley?

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Comments

  1. Patricia says

    February 12, 2023 at 5:08 PM

    Congratulations!
    I have a daughter Maria Joy and a daughter Martha Lily. I know it’s a lot of Ms, but I always wanted those names. I have loved that we chose Martha- I just wanted to share bc my naming criteria is very similar to yours. Best of luck.

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  2. Em says

    February 11, 2023 at 11:38 PM

    June

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  3. Maclary says

    February 11, 2023 at 6:03 PM

    Marie is a great name. There’s lots of great suggestions already! Might I add:

    Lydia, Astrid, Fleur or Flora, Thea, Naomi, Ursula, Xanthe, Odette, Elsa, Ivy, Zara, Gretel or Gretchen, Thora, Nadia or Nadine

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  4. Jenna says

    February 11, 2023 at 4:14 PM

    Rose
    June
    Irene
    Pearl
    Blythe
    Agnes

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  5. Kelly says

    February 11, 2023 at 9:30 AM

    Since your first is Marie (a name that was more popular in earlier generations that hasn’t “come back” yet), how about another name that has a similar style (history of use but not overly popular now or in the recent past)? Here are some ideas that fit your other criteria:

    Amy
    Ann/Anne
    Betty
    Helen
    Jane
    Joan
    Laura
    Nancy
    Susan

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  6. Andrea says

    February 11, 2023 at 9:02 AM

    I’ll add a few more. Some of these can be nicknamed or be spelled creatively, and a lot were more popular decades ago and will probably start coming back soon: Adele, Amy, Anita, Arlene, Belle, Bettina, Blythe, Carol, Charity, Charlene, Christine, Colleen, Dana, Danielle, Darlene, Dinah, Edith, Fern, Gina, Gloria, Jill, Joanna, Judith, Julie, Kathleen, Laurel, Lisa, Mabel, Marsha, Michelle, Molly, Monique, Nicole, Olive, Paige, Patricia, Pippa, Ramona, Renee, Rita, Rochelle, Rosa, Sally, Suzanne, Tara, Tessa, Una, Zora

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  7. CA says

    February 11, 2023 at 4:41 AM

    So many good suggestions already!

    I’d add Greta. Most certainly stands alone, unlikely to be nicknamed. Marie and Greta give me a nice old worlde vibe. I know a teenage Greta and it’s so sophisticated on her, just like Marie.

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  8. GalNamedGuy says

    February 11, 2023 at 1:37 AM

    Love Marie as a first name so much.

    My suggestion is…
    Marie Henley & Heidi Marlow

    Alice, Rose, Jane, Elise, Leah, Hazel, Audrey, Olive are also great suggestions.

    I’ll add Adele. Marie & Adele.

    Best of luck and let us know what you pick.

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  9. diane says

    February 11, 2023 at 1:07 AM

    I don’t think these names have been mentioned.
    M@rie and Olivia or Bridget

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  10. keats says

    February 10, 2023 at 10:33 PM

    Louise and Claire are two outstanding options with Marie. But one has nicknames and one spelling issues. Ruth is amazing. And Diane would work well too. Marie always reminds me of Theresa, but not sure that fits either with the rules. What about Florence?

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  11. Emmy says

    February 10, 2023 at 9:10 PM

    My suggestions:
    Esme taps into your Old French vibe without obvious nicknames
    Lara easy to say, spell and no nicknames but strong sounding
    Olive can’t do much with that… Liv maybe? I know an Olive who is never given a nickname

    More Old French classics without obvious nicknames that still fit in today…
    Elise
    Camille
    Audrey
    Sylvie

    I’m going to cherry pick from the other suggestions.

    Anna was my first thought but could be nicknamed to Annie
    Hannah is a definite classic typically without nicknames
    Emma is classic but little will get Em however will not likely write that down
    Laura classic no nicknames
    Eva classic may get Evie
    Lucy may get Lu or Lulu but unlikely to write that down
    Ruby works
    Alice I know an Alice who goes almost exclusively by Ally

    Claire is a no from me. Too many ways to spell it and Marie Claire is a magazine.

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  12. Erin Beth says

    February 10, 2023 at 8:30 PM

    I think it’s hard to top the suggestion of Louise but my other favorites for you are:

    Clara
    Anne
    Corinne
    Ingrid
    Lena
    Elaine

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  13. Melissa says

    February 10, 2023 at 7:11 PM

    I liked Abby’s suggestion of Louise to go with Marie. I think a Marie I have met (adult) has a sister named Wendy…

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  14. Andrea says

    February 10, 2023 at 4:46 PM

    Ada, Anna, Celia, Charlotte, Claire, Clara, Colette, Cora, Coral, Daisy, Delia, Diane, Dora, Dorothy, Eliza, Ellen, Eva, Grace, Hannah, Hazel, Hope, Irene, Iris, Jean, Josie, Laura, Leah, Lucy, Maeve, Margaret, Matilda, Mavis, Nina, Opal, Priscilla, Pearl, Polly, Rachel, Rose, Ruby, Stella, Susan, Sylvie, Tina, Verity, Willa, Yvette, Yvonne,

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  15. M says

    February 10, 2023 at 1:50 PM

    How about:
    Helen
    Iris
    Caroline
    Mabel
    Diana
    Georgia
    Grace
    Lynn
    Pearl
    Harriet
    Esther
    Eve
    Nancy
    June
    Bess or Tess

    Most of these *could* have alternate spellings- there are people named Giorgia, Yve, and Grayce- but the most common spelling is waaaaay more popular than any alternatives. The same with nicknames- Caroline could be Caro or Callie, for example- but all the Carolines I know are just Caroline.

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  16. ab says

    February 10, 2023 at 12:55 PM

    This is challenging because so many names can be nicknamed by adding an ie or y!
    Possibilities (with more than a few repeats):
    April
    Claire — yes, it can also be spelled Clair or Clare, but I’ve found Claire is the most common.
    Elise
    Eve
    Faith
    Grace
    Hannah
    Helen — maybe too close to Henley.
    Hope — I love Hope in general, but also for the reason Renee stated about initial sharing.
    June
    Laura / Laurel / Lauren
    Leah
    Ruth
    Sophie

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  17. Renee says

    February 10, 2023 at 11:49 AM

    This is such a fun one! Because while the style of Marie is hot, she’s underused. I only know one young Marie and it absolutely made me go “Huh. YES!” Jane was my first thought but she’s more used, as are a lot of others that come to mind (Grace, Rose.) And the spelling and pronunciation thing! Even Vera is sometimes Verra. Ruth, Rachel and Amy are great ideas.

    I have only two suggestions for you that I really feel hit the same note – Nina and Hope. (And I only really included Hope because then each of the parents would share an initial with a child.) I think Nina & Marie would be a surprising and lovely set on sisters these days.

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  18. Istas says

    February 10, 2023 at 11:31 AM

    Ida
    Lenore
    Irene
    Jewel
    Lyra
    Harriet
    Fern
    Sybil

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  19. Christine says

    February 10, 2023 at 10:29 AM

    Claudia and Rose from the comments, but I think Alice has such a sweet, happy sound with Marie.

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  20. diane says

    February 10, 2023 at 10:04 AM

    I like Abby’s suggestions of Julia and Ruth. Ideas I had are…
    M@rie and…
    Laura
    Rachel
    Audrey
    Elise or Eliza
    Elaine
    Nora
    Emma
    Margot
    Daphne
    Daisy
    Serena

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  21. Kelly says

    February 10, 2023 at 8:54 AM

    I meant to post this as a reply to Iris – and her suggestion of Sarah.

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  22. Kelly says

    February 10, 2023 at 8:53 AM

    Sarah has the “with or without an h” issue.

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  23. Iris says

    February 10, 2023 at 8:24 AM

    Claire
    Anna
    Lucy
    Sarah
    Diana
    Rose
    Grace
    So lots of classic names with no nicknames!
    My favorites are Claire, Rose and Lucy!

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  24. Loren says

    February 10, 2023 at 8:24 AM

    Claire/Clair/Clare might have too many spellings, but Clara is standardized and rarely shortened.
    Roman Julia makes me think of Claudia.
    Spare Jane leads me to Jill.
    I love you style of underused, streamlined classics.

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  25. Susanne says

    February 10, 2023 at 7:54 AM

    My first thought was Adelaide -yes, it could be shortened, but I know an Adelaide & an Adeline & both go by their full names. Adelaide nns aren’t as obvious maybe? Marie & Adelaide?
    My second thought was Jane. It’s a beautiful name but seems rather short & too English next to Marie.
    How about Rose? Marie & Rose are gorgeous together.
    Heidi? It’s classic, only has one spelling, hard to get a nn from it, underused & maybe unexpected.
    Amy?
    So here’s my list in order of preference:
    Heidi
    Rose
    Adelaide
    Jane
    Amy
    I’m sure you’ll find a beautiful name for your daughter if not now, when you first see her.

    Reply

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