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Name Help: A Formal Name for Max

June 23, 2018 By appellationmountain 19 Comments

Name Help: A Formal Name for MaxName Help is a series at Appellation Mountain. Every week, one reader’s name questions will be discussed.

We’re relying on thoughtful comments from the community to help expectant parents narrow down their name decisions. Thank you in advance for sharing your insight!

T writes:

We’re adopting a son we plan to call Max.

In the four photos we have of him, he’s wearing a onesie that says, “sweet dreams Max.” (We didn’t feel right legally naming a baby after a onesie!)

Our late daughter was named Rocket Josephine. For future children, we have the names Viva and Clementine for a daughter and Ezra and Huckleberry for a son, plus we’ve considered Hannibal, Barnaby, Simon, Russell, and Malik. (In other words, we’re all over the place!)

He’ll have my last name, which starts with a J and ends with a -y, so names ending with an ‘ee’ sound probably won’t work, with Lee as a second middle. So First Middle Lee J—y.

We’re both teachers and can’t use the name of any former students we’ve taught. We’d also like to avoid our kid ever sharing a name with a classmate.

We’re not religious at all, so some of these names feel like a lot of Old Testament.

With just a few days to go, we’re bouncing between these formal names for Max:

  • Milo, Moses, Maximilian for first names.
  • August, Alexander, and Oleksandr for middle names.

Please read on for my response, and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.

Dear T –

How exciting to be welcoming your sweet son – and so soon!

I hear a big challenge in your name choices. Teachers often remark that avoiding popular names matters. But how far will you go to give your child a one-of-one, never-gonna-repeat-in-your-class name?

Usually it turns out that parents are content to choose something that avoids repeating the names of the most, erm, memorable students they’ve come across. But that’s no guard against a future student sharing a name with your child.

Because you named your daughter Rocket, I suspect you’re willing to make far more daring choices than most!

Max misses the mark, in that regard. It’s a great name, but there are lots of Max names in the current US Top 1000, several just outside of the Top 100. And yet, it’s as if he told you his name in his pictures! So I’m not suggesting you change it.

Instead, this makes me think that it’s extra important to find a distinctive first-middle combination for his formal name.

Milo – Milo feels offbeat and edgy, but at #224 in the US, it’s actually fairly mainstream. Credit goes to cousin Miles, currently just outside of the US Top 100. But we also love so many -o ending boy names.

Maximilian – At #464, Maximilian is relatively uncommon. (That works out to around 650 newborn boys given the name last year.) It’s a big name, but that’s not a dealbreaker for you. It also leads logically to the nickname Max, which might be a bonus.

Moses – I love the sound of Moses, and I always expect it to be more popular than it is. But at #475, it’s only slightly less common than Maximilian. Of course, it will feel less popular because nothing really sounds like Moses. So in that sense, Moses might be your best bet.

I’m tempted to suggest one more uncommon Max name: Maxfield, as in the artist and illustrator Maxfield Parrish.

But let’s go back to the three you’ve listed. I’d rule out Milo because it’s the most popular. Let’s pair the others with middles to see if that makes a difference:

Maximilian August – I find it difficult to imagine a four-syllable middle with a four-syllable first, but that’s okay, because Maximilian August is a great combination! I like this so much, and it would be my personal favorite. But is it a little safe for you?

Moses Alexander – Alexander goes well with Moses, and I think it’s a good combination of the bold and unexpected with the more traditional.

Moses Oleksandr – The Olek- spelling of Alexander tends to be Ukrainian, or maybe Russian or Polish. It’s confusing as a given name, but appealing in the middle spot. Using Oleksandr over Alexander makes the name a touch more daring overall. And so I wonder if this is the best combination for your family?

Let’s have a poll, though, because I’m still more drawn to Maximilian August and Moses Alexander – but I’m not sure if that’s the right direction for your family!

Over to you, readers – what formal name would you choose for Max? And do you have any advice for teachers seeking a more distinctive name for their child?

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Comments

  1. Nessie says

    June 24, 2018 at 11:49 AM

    Magnus – it’s not even on the top 1000

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  2. Lucy says

    June 24, 2018 at 7:58 AM

    D’oh, I meant Malik, not Marek.

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  3. Lucy says

    June 24, 2018 at 7:56 AM

    Going to echo the suggestion of using a Ma- name followed by an X- name OR Alexander. I know a Max short for Matthew Xavier. Matthew strikes me as too popular for your tastes, but Marek Alexander seems the perfect route to Max for you. I also love the suggestion of Massimo as another unusual route to Max.

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  4. FE says

    June 24, 2018 at 12:15 AM

    I feel like Maxim would be easy to use in full and unlikely to be a duplicate even if there were other Max’s in his class. And it would fit with a number of your potential ‘all over the place’ future names. I can picture brothers Maxim & Simon as easily as Maxim and Huckleberry!

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  5. C in DC says

    June 23, 2018 at 9:43 PM

    How about Xander or Xavier for the middle? With any M first name, you’d have the initials M.X.

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  6. Jean C. says

    June 23, 2018 at 9:27 PM

    I love the idea of Malik Alexander, called Max. It completely works for me! Malcolm isn’t on your original list but has already been mentioned here and Malcolm Alexander works great too! I love the name Malcolm.

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  7. Amanda L. says

    June 23, 2018 at 6:04 PM

    If he’s old enough to be in photos, does he already have a name? All three of my adopted siblings were named before they came to my parents – either by the orphanage or by their birth parents. Obviously, you don’t HAVE to keep those names, but if he’s already got a “Max” name (to go with the shirt), it might be worth knowing what that is and at least considering if you could use it. (My parents chose to use the original given names of one of my brothers as a double middle, and give him a first name from our family tree.)

    I like the suggustion of combining an M name with Alexander. Malcom is my favorite with your sibset, but many of the other suggestions work well.

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  8. Maree says

    June 23, 2018 at 5:50 PM

    These are nice names. I love Moses and think the long o and the s’s make it very on trend.

    However, I think you should stop and think about your name requirements. You say you don’t want your child to share a name in his class. I assume that is because you don’t want him to be Max J. Or to have confusion about who is being referred to. Using an uncommon legal name and a common nickname won’t achieve that. If everyone knows him as ‘Max’ then he will still be one of two in the class if there is a Maximillian and a Maximo both called Max. If there are two kids named Maximo and one goes by Max and one Moe then they will be seen to have different names.

    I think you probably need to drop one of the two requirements (to use the name Max, and to have an unusual name) because they are mutually exclusive. Personally, I would stick with the name that I loved and not worry about the other parents loving it too! There are lots of anecdotes about kindergarten classes with two kids named Persephone and kids who are named James who have never shared a room with another.

    I don’t hear four syllables in August. Where I am from it has only two and it makes a great, unusual middle name with good meaning. Are you bothered or pleased that Max and August both have connotations of greatness? If pleased I would go with a more obvious Max name and August in the middle.

    Christianity, Judaism and Islam all use and honour Moses in various forms (Musa, Moshe, Moses etc) for that reason I think you could get away with using it even in a secular family. I’m not in the US though.

    I do like Cormac August.

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  9. shay says

    June 23, 2018 at 5:15 PM

    Since you don’t seem to be sold on any of the somewhat obvious Max names I feel like maybe Max could be thought of as “Macks”

    Maddox
    Malcolm
    Cormac
    MacArthur
    MacCoy
    MacHenry
    MacAllister
    Madoc
    Maverick
    Marcus
    Mannix
    Maxton
    Mack or Mac alone

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  10. April says

    June 23, 2018 at 4:37 PM

    What do you think of Augustus instead of August? It feels bigger and more distinctive. Full disclosure it’s my son’s (first name Maxwell) first middle name so I have a soft spot for it.

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  11. Emily says

    June 23, 2018 at 2:05 PM

    My cousin is Max, formal name Maxime.

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  12. Laura says

    June 23, 2018 at 12:50 PM

    There’s alot of Max names Maximus, Maximilian, Maxwell, Maximo And Maxim just to name a few…

    Maximo stands out to me it feels right given your style of names

    Good luck

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  13. Brittany Harte says

    June 23, 2018 at 12:35 PM

    How about the versions of the name Maximus? Maximus itself is pretty popular, but you could do the Spanish Maximo or the Italian Massimo. All could have Max as a nickname and are unlikely to be duplicated by a classmate. They are fun, energetic choices themselves and not just a way to get to Max.

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  14. Amy3 says

    June 23, 2018 at 12:32 PM

    How about Malcolm Alexander? Malcolm gives you a less popular first name that leads to Max pretty easily when paired with Alexander. It probably rules out Malik for a later kid though.

    Congratulations and enjoy your baby!

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  15. Kay says

    June 23, 2018 at 10:14 AM

    I would completely scratch Moses off the list. It such a biblical connection it might be awkward in a nonreligious family. There are very few names that haven’t bridged the gap between religious and secular usage and Moses is definitely one of them.

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    • British American says

      June 23, 2018 at 1:23 PM

      I agree. I teach Kindergarten Sunday School and I know of only one Moses, who is from a religious family. If I met a Moses I would assume that the family was Christian, which you might want to avoid when you are not.

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  16. AWaguespack says

    June 23, 2018 at 10:13 AM

    How about a variant of Mark? Marek Alexander could easily lead to Max and I don’t think it’s too common?

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  17. CarolAnn says

    June 23, 2018 at 8:33 AM

    I like an M first name with Alexander as the middle – because I can easily see the name Max in there! For some reason, I love the flow and sound of Milo Alexander. or Merritt Alexander is interesting.

    Malachi Alexander could be cool too – the Old Testament Malachi with the ancient Alexander gives it a great antiquity feel.

    You could go big with Massimiliano Alexander (he could be Max or Milo with that!) or Mateo Alexander. In some Slavic languages, there’s Matyas (Matt-ee-awsh), which I really like.

    There is also the name Maddox, which could easily shorten to Max. You can almost hear Max in Mackenzie (I know that trends girl, but it’s a cool name for a boy!)

    You could also do Xavier for a middle. Malik Xavier is pretty cool (especially is you pronounce Xavier as Ex-avier).

    Good luck and congratulations!

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    • CarolAnn says

      June 26, 2018 at 4:07 PM

      And I’ll add Marcus Xavier – that strikes me as such a cool name! It really has character (and I’m not normally a fan of Marcus, but Marcus Xavier called Max is pretty awesome).

      Reply

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