Fetching Names

Remember this scene from Mean Girls?  I think about it often when I’m working on posts.

If you haven’t seen the movie, Gretchen is trying to get “fetch” – meaning cool – to catch on as the new slang.  She’s one of her high school’s very most popular girls, along with reigning queen Regina, air-headed Karen, and, at least for part of the movie, a newcomer played by Lindsay Lohan.

Gretchen’s gambit fails, but it could’ve worked.  Fetching comes from the Old English feccan – to bring.  The word’s meaning has evolved over time, but by the late nineteenth century, fetching was high praise – for example, a fetching bonnet.

The world is filled with attractive names, names that don’t get enough attention – names that never, like Gretchen’s slang – happen.  This series is my attempt to highlight a handful of names that aren’t on everyone’s list but might wear well anyhow.  They’re short lists, but I think there’s great potential in each of the names.

The first list of Fetching Names is inspired by mean girls – or maybe not so mean girls with great names.  We’ve grown up with on the small screen and in movies, too.

Blair – She’s just one sound removed from the fashionable French Claire, plus she’s been worn by two enduring small screen poor little rich girls: The Facts of Life’s blonde shopaholic Blair Warner in the 1980s, and more recently, the scheming, but not irredeemable  brunette Blair Waldorf of Gossip Girl fame.  Some might dismiss Blair as borrowed from the boys, but she’s scarcely used by either gender since the start of this century.

CadyKatie is everywhere – one-part Katharine Hepburn, one-part Kaitlyn short form.  Cady takes her in a different direction, thanks to suffragette Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the Mean Girl made famous by Lohan in 2004′s hit flick.  She’s novel but not quite nouveau, and despite her current sound, has never really caught on.  Not only is Stanton a worthy role model, but despite Ms. Lohan’s woes, let’s not forget that her character did the right thing by the end of the movie.

Edie – Take Evie, mix with Eden and you’d arrive at this rarity.  Andy Warhol made a 1965 indie movie called Poor Little Rich Girl starring Edie Sedgwick.  Sedgwick was, in real life, a socialite heiress, an early version of Paris Hilton, born Edith Minton Sedgwick.

Veronica – 1989′s dark high school comedy Heathers starred Christian Slater as J.D. and Winona Ryder as Veronica Sawyer.  Veronica was a good girl – a “girl scout cookie” – who grew up to hang with her high school’s most popular, powerful trio – three girls all named Heather.  Despite her vibrant v, Veronica has been falling since the 1970s, but she still sounds surprising.

Other names in this category have made it big in recent years.  There’s Sweet Valley High’s Lila, Disney Channel original series The Suite Life’s London, and Legally Blonde’s Elle, all of which are very much in vogue.

Would you use a fictional character’s name for your child?  Does the character have to be clearly on the side of good, like Luke Skywalker, or are shades of gray okay?

 

Baby Name of the Day: Blythe

She’s as cheerful as Felicity, as brief as Blair.

Thanks to Rocking Fetal for suggesting Blythe as Baby Name of the Day.

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Sunday Summary: 7/18/10

Unless I’m missing it, there isn’t a big time celeb birth anticipated this summer.  Without choices like Knox and Apple to discuss, a few sites have been focusing on the lame (their word, not mine) baby names some celebs give their kiddos.  Though by lame, they mostly mean kids named after their parents, like little Cristiano Ronaldo, named after his soccer-playing-papa Cristiano Ronaldo.

Here’s an intriguing celeb(ish) sibset: Tucker, Haven, and Clancy – the younger two are girls, the firstborn is a boy.  They’re Lisa Whelchel’s three kids.  Yup, Lisa WhelchelBlair from The Facts of Life, a sitcom I loved so much that I can still sing the theme song.  Whelchel’s long since quit the stage to raise a family and manage a Christian ministry focused on moms.  She mentioned daughter Clancy in an interview for her new book and I was intrigued.   I always find it refreshing to find a former child star who seems truly happy and well-adjusted.

Elsewhere online:

  • I came across a mommy blogger with three boys called Zack, Zander and Zaden.  I’m not linking to her because, well, I suspect you all might find it a bit zany.  Me?  I’ve been wondering what she could call a fourth son;
  • For Real Baby Names spotted a Lestat and a Nikayla in Iowa.  Nikayla feels like an inevitable mash-up of Nicole and Makayla.  And I assume little Lestat is dressing as a vampire for his first Halloween;
  • For Real also found a Bastion Nikolai in Alaska.  Bastion should win some sort of an award.  He bridges the softer sound of Sebastian and the uber-masculine vibe of Cannon and Gunner.  A bastion is a fortification, but with his implications of protection, he’s almost a virtue name, too;
  • And from the Huey, Dewey and Louie school, there’s a Jakely and a Blakely in Oklahoma.  Okay, they’re not related;
  • Here’s another interesting one, this time at Swistle: Aidrick, an alternative to Aidan;
  • Nancy spotted a wild acronym name: Ktyal.  No clue on how they’re pronouncing it.  I keep wanting to say kay tal, but isn’t that awfully close to the Spanish for what’s up? – ¿Qué tal?;
  • Babble’s been running some not-so-nice baby name riffs.  The most recent is on Bryn, as in the name chosen by Real Housewife Bethenny Frankel for her daughter;
  • And lastly, is John gone? A Nameberry post examines the question.

In starbaby news:

On another note, Lurker Week was a smash hit.  Thanks to everyone who submitted a new name for consideration.  I’ve broken my usual rule about how far in advance I’ll calendar requests, so we’ll be hearing suggestions from new voices well into October!

That’s all for this week.  As always, thank you for reading!

Sunday Summary: July 5, 2009

For those of you in the US, I hope you had a firecracker of a holiday!

The big starbaby news of the week was the reveal of Tobey Maguire’s son’s name: Otis Tobias, little brother to Ruby Sweetheart.

Other celeb news:

Elsewhere in the blogosphere:

Next, a few things on my mind:

  • The following question keeps popping up in searches leading to this site:  Can I name my daughter Kylie and my son Kyle?   Yes, yes, you can.  But you just flat out should not do so.  It’s too close, too cutesie and if you ever had a third child, you’d be forced to choose from a very small list of names indeed.  (I think she’d have to be Kyla or Skyla, and he’d be Kyson or Kyler.  Or feel horribly left out.); 
  • My vocabulary keeps expanding, thanks to name sites.  I’ve recently discovered the Aussie slang word bogan, the equivalent of the British chavvy or American trashy.  I think.  Apparently, phonetic spellings like Taylah for Taylor are a thing, or so blogs a Doc Down Under during her pediatric rotation;
  • A UK blogger mentioned that a BBC3 documentary on a 14 y.o. mum called Kizzy mentioned that she named her son Kaylib.  Not Caleb, not Kaleb, but Kaylib.  As if having your childhood immortalized on reality TV wasn’t bad enough;
  • Could the name Merlin make a comeback?  That’s right, a comeback – he appeared in the US Top 1000 regularly from the 1890s through the 1960s.  It first crossed my mind while watching Bravo’s The Fashion Show, with the Honduran Merlin.  Even if he doesn’t strike it big in the design world, there’s the BBC’s Merlin, now showing on NBC this summer.  If Arthur can make  a comeback …
  • Another Bravo-influenced thought, couldn’t they have found better-named kids for their real-life-Gossip Girl, NYC Prep?  The cast includes PC, Sebastian, Kelli, Taylor, Jessie and Camille.  I realize you can’t rename full-grown human beings, but I’ll take GG’s Rufus, Lily, Serena and Blair anyday;
  • Lastly, a look back – on July 5, 2008, the Name of the Day was Jasper.

That’s all for this week!  Tune in next week for Flannery, Dahlia, Gregor, Brisa and Clifford.

 

Simple, Sweet and Stuck in the Middle

We’ve written about middle names before.  But today, we’ve decided to offer a fairly simple list for your consideration.

While many of these are gender neutral, this list was compiled with girls in mind.  For decades, parents have stuffed an unimaginative Anne or Lynne between the first and last names.  More recently, Grace and Rose have become the most common answers to the riddle of the middle.

Many fabulous pairings do not require a single-syllable middle name.  We love unexpected combinations like Mary Veronica or Alice Zenobia.  But if you find that keeping it simple is more your style, read on.

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As Seen on TV: Gossip Girls

The writer’s strike may be putting a hitch in the television schedule, but babies need naming every day of the year. And what better naming inspiration than a pair of rich-as-sin, pretty-as-starlets characters on a television drama about privileged teenagers? Serena and Blair, welcome to Appellation Mountain.

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