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CLASSIC NOT BORING GIRL NAMES
Courtney writes:
We are expecting our first child in the new year. I was one of those kids who named my teddy bear Bear and kept whatever name my doll came with, so I don’t have a list of favorites.
What I do know is that I don’t want a name that screams “born in 2026.” I’ve made peace with my name, but it’s so 90s.
My husband is pretty laid back about names, so when I suggested Sarah he was on board. I’m not sure it’s my absolute favorite.
Here’s what I like about it:
- It’s traditional. There are 19th century Sarahs and Sarahs right now. For every Sarah Palin, there’s a Sarah McLachlan. We’re not especially religious, but I like that it’s a Biblical name because it proves it’s always been a name.
- It works in other languages. I know pronunciation changes slightly and all that, but i think it’s easier than a name like Courtney. Beginning with study abroad in college, I’ve traveled a lot, including for work, and my name is definitely not well known outside of English-speaking countries.
- Despite the H/no H debate, I think it’s pretty easy to spell. At least compared to all the names like Aiden and Kaylee.
We’ve agreed that our children will have my husband’s last name, which sounds like Al-plus-ford, with my last name as their middle, which is German and sounds like Shoo-der.
I feel like I’m drawn to this name because it sounds serious for an adult but I can still picture it for a little girl.
When I’ve talked about it with others, though, it feels like it’s the equivalent of white paint. Just very ordinary. My sister-in-law just named their baby Eloise, and our close friends have daughters named Eden, Margot, Coraline, Aria, Hattie, Juniper, Willa, and Alice.
My sister asked me if Sarah wasn’t kind of a “mom name.” Though she also said she likes it. She’s an Ashley, so she’s with me on avoiding anything too dated, but she doesn’t thinks that names like Eloise and Margot are more classic and I could choose something like that, though obviously not those names exactly.
Is Sarah too dated? Will my daughter feel like she has a mom name? And are there other names we should consider?
Please read on for my response and leave your thoughtful suggestions in the comments.
SARAH, OR A NAME LIKE SARAH
Abby replies:
Congratulations on your new daughter!
Here’s the thing: classic names trend.
This means that two things can be true:
- A name can be a time-tested traditional favorite that isn’t strongly tied to a specific generation.
- At the same time, that exact same name might suggest a generation to many.
It’s kind of a numbers game.
Sarah has already ranked in the US Top 1000. It’s popular across other times, cultures, and languages, too.
But Sarah entered the US Top Ten in 1978 and stayed there through 2002, reaching peak popularity in the 1980s. Sara, too, peaked on the same timeline.
So are there lots of 30-something and 40-ish women named Sarah right about now? Yes, absolutely.
But here’s the thing: Sarah still charts in the girls’ Top 100. In fact, it’s still ranked #95 and the least popular ranking ever? #119 in 1959.
It’s a rock solid traditional that will strike some as a mom name … but zoom out just a little further, and I’d say you’re absolutely right. Sarah belongs with classic not boring girl names … and I think it’s a great choice for your daughter.
But let’s see if we can add to your list with choices that might feel the tiniest bit updated, while still striking a more traditional note.
MORE CLASSIC NOT BORING GIRL NAMES
CLARA
At least as internationally portable as Sarah, though Clara seems slightly more current in recent years.
GRACE
A strong and substantial choice, Grace might be a little more flexible because of built-in nickname Gracie.
KATHERINE or KATE
Maybe the solution is to go with a completely classic choice? Elizabeth is one, but I love the idea of Katherine called Kate.
LILY
This name sounds vintage, but it’s actually near peak popularity today. Around the turn of the 20th century, Lillie was more common – and still not quite as chart-topping as this pretty floral choice is now.
MARIE
Mary is another option, but I like Marie for the oh-wait-that’s-a-GREAT-first-name quality. (Because lots of those 30-somethings are actually Sarah Marie.)
NORA
As with Clara, Nora is a very current name with the same sort of energy as Sarah.
ROSE
Another option, midway between Lily and Grace. Once again, there’s a great nickname here: Rosie.
SYLVIE
Or Sylvia. It’s a sweet name with a little sharpness thanks to that middle V.
Overall, I don’t think any of these necessarily best Sarah. But I suspect a name like Nora or Clara would garner a more favorable response. And I do think Marie could be the ideal widely-known, seldom-heard, easily-translated choice that feels timeless and just slightly surprising.
My vote is to stick with Sarah, but if you’re not settled? I’d add Marie to the top of your short list.
