Fetching Names: Boomerang Boys

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I don’t have much patience for the idea that every name is clearly and unambiguously gendered.  I’ve defended borrowing conventionally masculine names for girls before, and I often find so-called boys’ names on girls downright appealing.

If there is one thing that irks me it is the idea that once a name goes girl, it can’t come back.  Now this isn’t exactly true – names tend to rise for both genders at the same time.  But when a name hits the big time for girls – Avery or Madison, for example – parents of boys do tend to cross it off their lists, and the few parents that had recently bestowed it on a son, well … they’re often found on baby name forums insisting that everyone needs to stop stealing Bailey.

So this week’s list are my top picks for boyish girls names we’re likely to cautiously reconsider for our sons – eventually.

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Sunday Summary: 2/19/12

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I’ve mentioned a few times that I live just outside of Washington DC, but it strikes me that I probably take the staggering diversity in my community for granted.  I was reading the honor roll at a local middle school and while there were a few kids called Jacob or Emily, they were definitely in the minority.  From the list: Zierra, Christmene, Tu, Blissful, Elvis, Vitelio, Joseline, Edith, Abner, Lilibeth, Davino, Octavia, Paola, Favour, Judith, Elida, Galilea, and Giselle, plus a few first-middle combos: Sofia Sabrina, William Lisandro, Oscar Alexi, Michael Courtney, Celestin Georgia, Norma Elisabat, and Maya Antoinette.  If you live in a large urban area, I’m inclined to say that anything goes.

  • Forget Washington DC, every time I read one of For Real’s London posts, I have the urge to trade one city for another, if only so I could stalk expectant mums and ask if they which extra middle names they were considering for their little Horatio or Faris.
  • I kind of like Ryu, one I’d never considered until I read this profile from Isadora.
  • J’adore Jette and Jetta, Volkswagon reference aside …
  • What’s your favorite from Nook’s Artistic Names of Artists list?  I’m partial to Cassatt, but there are some really wearable options here.
  • I’m endlessly fascinated by how we classify names.  This comment at Swistle is a great example: “For first names we tend to like longer, three syllable names, kind of old fashioned or elegant but not REALLY out-there old fashioned (i.e. I like Meredith but would probably not consider anything like Gertrude or Winifred).”  On the one hand, the comment reflects Meredith’s slight edge in the popularity contest.  She ranked #603 in 2010, while the other names were unranked in recent years.  And yet Meredith is falling, while the other names might be closer to making a comeback.  Just like Beatrice or Eleanor felt hopelessly fusty a few years back and are now rather stylish, popularity rankings aren’t fixed conditions – but we treat them as if they are.
  • Did you see this study?  I agree.  Riley re-spelled Rhylea is more of a problem than Pilot, and plenty of names have multiple valid spellings.
  • Design Mom’s series Living With Kids continues to inspire – not only are the houses always gorgeous and often DIY’d, the kids have such great names.  This week’s entry includes brothers named Henry and Conrad.  I am irrationally happy to see a Conrad!
  • Did you see Waltzing More than Matilda’s list of Girls Names of Australian Aboriginal Origin?  Fascinating list.
  • Let’s end with a name Swistle mentioned: Patton.  She’s right – he should be going gangbusters.  He’s a modern spin on classic Patrick, and Patton Oswalt – named after General Patton – keeps the name in the spotlight.

That’s all for this week.  As always, thank you for reading and have a great week!

Fetching Names: The Nevilles, Part I

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No sooner had I hit publish on the first installment in The Hermiones series, than the following question rolled in: “What’s the male equivalent?”

It was a baffling question.  Many of the qualities we admire in Hermione – bravery, a stubborn self-assurance, book learning and serious street smarts – are common traits for male heroes in fiction.  What makes Hermione exceptional is that she’s also an outsider (Muggle-born, in Potterverse parlance) and an ugly duckling.  And a girl.  Even in 2012, many girls’ names convey a head cheerleader or a princess-in-training image.  Hermione stands out – as I’ve written before, she’s clunky, but still cool, and definitely vintage.

Then there’s Katniss, the more modern equivalent.  Katniss names are offbeat and often drawn from the natural world, but they’re hearty, even tough.  The fact that Katniss is deadly first and compassionate second in many of the stories is what keeps her alive – typical traits for a male hero, but exceptional for a teenage girl.

I’m indebted to C in DC for suggesting that maybe the male equivalent is Neville, as in Neville Longbottom.  At the start of the series, he’s as awkward as they come and it turns out he’s lugging around a crushing secret.  But the character also has surprising reserves of bravery and grit, and he turns into a true hero without sacrificing any of his native kindness.  That’s not the typical hero’s journey, though Neville eventually proves himself a capable lieutenant for Harry - he organizes the student resistance in Harry’s absence, and in the final battle, it is actually Neville who slays the giant snake, Nagini.

This list includes boys’ names that sacrifice a certain energy for a gentle quality.  They’re well-born, gentlemanly names, but they’re still clearly masculine.  Like Hermione, they’re antique, even clunky – and likely to inspire others to warn you of playground teasings should you give the name to a son.  But the Nevilles come out on top in the long run – you can imagine these names on a valedictorian, a statesman, a poet – or maybe an indie rocker.

The US Top 100 includes a few names that could have made this list – Elijah and Tristan, maybe?  Or how about Sebastian?  But the final requirement is that the name be relatively underused, at least in the US.  And so, I give you … the Nevilles.

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Baby Name of the Day: Ishmael

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Looking for name that is both a literary and a Biblical heavy hitter?

Thanks to Marlene for suggesting one that fits the bill.  Our Baby Name of the Day is Ishmael.

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From Annai to Zen: Thoughts on the Deepening Name Pool, Part II

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As I mentioned in the first installment of this series, I am truly fascinated by novel names.  Every generation has them, and while it feels like we have more than ever, we can’t really know if that’s true.

In part one, what we have less of in 2012.  There’s less pressure to Anglicize a name, encouraging parents to consider Matteo or Matthias, rather translating it to Matthew.  Naming conventions and family traditions have faded, meaning that parents no longer look exclusively to relatives’ or saints’ names.  And the need to put a formal name on the birth or baptismal certificate has lessened, meaning that we have Sadie and Sarah, Jonathan and Jack.

Now let’s turn our attention to what we have more of in 2012:

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Baby Name of the Day: Pimm

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It’s a classic cocktail and a medieval appellation.  Would it be a possibility today?

Thanks to Findley for suggesting Pimm as our Baby Name of the Day.

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Fetching Names: Beary Boyish

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You wouldn’t name your son Fuzzy Wuzzy or Yogi, but there are an awful lot of great boy names that bring to mind bears.  Some literally mean bear, while others have been worn by a famous ursine.

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Baby Name of the Day: Garnet

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We have daughters named Ruby and Pearl, Gemma and Jewel, so why not this sparkling appellation?

Thanks to Marianne and Larkin for suggesting Garnet as our Baby Name of the Day.

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Baby Name of the Day: Fraser

English: coat of arms of the fraser of lovat

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He’s a surname that nods to Scotland, and to the great outdoors.

Thanks to Fran for suggesting Fraser as our Baby Name of the Day.

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