Fetching Names: Boomerang Boys

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I don’t have much patience for the idea that every name is clearly and unambiguously gendered.  I’ve defended borrowing conventionally masculine names for girls before, and I often find so-called boys’ names on girls downright appealing.

If there is one thing that irks me it is the idea that once a name goes girl, it can’t come back.  Now this isn’t exactly true – names tend to rise for both genders at the same time.  But when a name hits the big time for girls – Avery or Madison, for example – parents of boys do tend to cross it off their lists, and the few parents that had recently bestowed it on a son, well … they’re often found on baby name forums insisting that everyone needs to stop stealing Bailey.

So this week’s list are my top picks for boyish girls names we’re likely to cautiously reconsider for our sons – eventually.

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Fetching Names: The Nevilles, Part I

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No sooner had I hit publish on the first installment in The Hermiones series, than the following question rolled in: “What’s the male equivalent?”

It was a baffling question.  Many of the qualities we admire in Hermione – bravery, a stubborn self-assurance, book learning and serious street smarts – are common traits for male heroes in fiction.  What makes Hermione exceptional is that she’s also an outsider (Muggle-born, in Potterverse parlance) and an ugly duckling.  And a girl.  Even in 2012, many girls’ names convey a head cheerleader or a princess-in-training image.  Hermione stands out – as I’ve written before, she’s clunky, but still cool, and definitely vintage.

Then there’s Katniss, the more modern equivalent.  Katniss names are offbeat and often drawn from the natural world, but they’re hearty, even tough.  The fact that Katniss is deadly first and compassionate second in many of the stories is what keeps her alive – typical traits for a male hero, but exceptional for a teenage girl.

I’m indebted to C in DC for suggesting that maybe the male equivalent is Neville, as in Neville Longbottom.  At the start of the series, he’s as awkward as they come and it turns out he’s lugging around a crushing secret.  But the character also has surprising reserves of bravery and grit, and he turns into a true hero without sacrificing any of his native kindness.  That’s not the typical hero’s journey, though Neville eventually proves himself a capable lieutenant for Harry - he organizes the student resistance in Harry’s absence, and in the final battle, it is actually Neville who slays the giant snake, Nagini.

This list includes boys’ names that sacrifice a certain energy for a gentle quality.  They’re well-born, gentlemanly names, but they’re still clearly masculine.  Like Hermione, they’re antique, even clunky – and likely to inspire others to warn you of playground teasings should you give the name to a son.  But the Nevilles come out on top in the long run – you can imagine these names on a valedictorian, a statesman, a poet – or maybe an indie rocker.

The US Top 100 includes a few names that could have made this list – Elijah and Tristan, maybe?  Or how about Sebastian?  But the final requirement is that the name be relatively underused, at least in the US.  And so, I give you … the Nevilles.

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Fetching Names: The Katnisses, Part I

Katniss Everdeen

Katniss Everdeen; Image via Wikipedia

Did you read the Fetching Names posts on The Hermiones?  (No?  Catch up with Part I and Part II.)  To be a Hermione, a name has to be many things, but the basic definition is this: vintage, but not delicate.  Clunky, but still cool.

On the original post punkprincessphd wrote this comment: ” … let us *raise* our daughters to be Hermiones, and don’t just stop at naming them such. But to go one step further, I wouldn’t mind if my daughter was a little bit Katniss, too.”

Katniss Everdeen, heroine of The Hunger Games trilogy, has much in common with Hermione Granger.  But her name is different.  It’s modern, but not invented.  Feminine, but not obviously so.  And like The Hermiones, the name has to exude strength.  But while Miss Granger is all about intellect, Miss Everdeen relies on an almost preternatural instinct.

And so here it is: The Katnisses, bold – even heroic – names for a daughter.

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Fetching Names: Borrowed from the Beatles

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You might not recognize Lady Gaga or Katy Perry, and you’re forgiven if you can’t tell the difference between Coldplay and Franz Ferdinand.  But very few of us don’t instantly know a Beatles song.  Plenty of the titles are pleasing appellations, and even more names are mentioned in their lyrics.

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Fetching Names: Beary Boyish

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You wouldn’t name your son Fuzzy Wuzzy or Yogi, but there are an awful lot of great boy names that bring to mind bears.  Some literally mean bear, while others have been worn by a famous ursine.

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Fetching Names: Into the Wayback Machine with the Girls’ Top 25

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I’m fascinated by names from the Middle Ages. They’re often quite similar to those parents love today, but tend to be almost entirely overlooked.

Nameberry has the Coolator.  I’d call this the Medievalizer, except that sounds like a torture device.

Instead, this is a list of the 2010 US Top 25 for girls, with suggestions for parents looking for something just a little different – or maybe something that would be right at home in the eleventh century.

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Fetching Names: The Hermiones, Part II

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Back in December, a conversation with a friend prompted a post called The Hermiones.  Midway through writing it, I realized it was a two-parter.

Hermiones are names that are vintage, but not delicate, and clunky, but still cool, inspired by J.K. Rowling’s heroic character.

The comments in the original post were amazing – lots of great ideas, most of which were already on this list.

I also loved this quote from punkprincessphd: ” … let us *raise* our daughters to be Hermiones, and don’t just stop at naming them such. But to go one step further, I wouldn’t mind if my daughter was a little bit Katniss, too.”

Here’s the long-awaited second half!

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Fetching Names: Calendar Kids

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After re-running January earlier this week, I was struck by how very wearable she is.  It’s the great advantage of many noun names – they’re instantly recognizable and easy to spell, but not common as given names.

So here are other names, borrowed from the calendar and, in some cases, the clock, that just might suit a child.

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Fetching Names: The Honest i

Letter iI do not like names respelled to end with an i.

Maci, Juli, Kari – no, no, no.  Macy, Julie, Carrie – yes, yes, yes.

Nicknames – Ceci for Cecilia - get a pass.  And I don’t so much mind Ashlie and Averie, though I think it might be frustrating to introduce yourself as “Ashlie with an ie” for ever and evermore.

Except that I do find myself completely in love with names that conventionally end in i, perhaps because it is rather rare – at least in English.  And so this week’s list is all about girls’ names that end with the letter i, stylishly.

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Fetching Names: So Lovely as a Tree

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The week before Christmas is an evergreen moment, all holly boughs and Douglas firs.  Maybe that’s why I’ve been thinking about trees and tree names this week.

Or maybe it is something less seasonal.  Not every tree here seems like a wintry pick.  And the positive virtues that we associate with trees – endurance, the beauty of the natural world – are timeless.  Thanks to the list at North Carolina State University’s website on trees for inspiration.

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