Welcome Readers of Nameberry and the Motherlode!

It was a sunny December Friday, a red-letter day thanks to my guest post at Nameberry on The Art of the Smoosh. It is always a privilege to spend time at their site, and I was thoroughly enjoying the comments.

When what to my wondering eyes should appear but a mention of Appellation Mountain on Lisa Belkin’s The Motherlode blog at NYTimes.com. I printed a copy for my mom, and wondered if it would be cheating to fold the print-out so “New York Times” and “Abby Sandel” were smooshed closer together.  (Today has a theme, I think!)

If you’re new here, welcome.  And if you’re a long-time reader, thank you!

P.S. Tune in tomorrow for another Reader Baby Name Story.

Guest Post at Nameberry

Thanks to Linda and Pam at Nameberry for hosting one of my guest posts today: Babes in TV Land. I am constantly amazed at how often I discover an obscure name like Alethea pops only after it appears on the small screen.  And if the show is a hit?  Well … then we can expect to meet many more girls named Cecelia in the next decade.

Here’s a quick look back at my previous guest posts:

My shelf full of baby names books is packed with their books, so it is really a privilege to write for them!

Guest Post at Nameberry: Spy Girls

Confession: I love James Bond.  Not the character, exactly – more the universe.  Back in undergrad, I dissed the superspy to a (male) classmate, who insisted I’d never really seen the movies.  He was right.

One Bond marathon later, I was hooked.

So when I researched the Baby Name of the Day post for Vesper, I was impressed that Ian Fleming based Vesper Lynd on real-life spy Krystyna Skarbek.  I’ve been collecting names of female spies ever since, and you can see my collection in a guest post at Nameberry today.

The list could be longer, but for simplicity’s sake, it’s limited to the women of World War II – and I’m sure I’ve missed more than a few.

Thanks to Linda and Pam, as always.  Please stop by and check it out!

Guest Post at Nameberry

If you haven’t already visited the Nameberry blog, please stop by this weekend.  I have a guest post up on Movie Award Names: Looking beyond Oscar. Thanks to Linda and Pam for the opportunity!

I’m smitten with Marpessa.  She was an Aetolian princess descended from the gods in Greek myth, but I cant explain how Marpessa Dawn, born in Pittsburgh, got the name.  Anyone care to use it for a daughter?

Elsewhere Online: See Dick and Jane Streets

Do you read Fritinancy’s blog?  She comes up with some of the most interesting observations about the English language, and often touches on personal names.  (I’m just waiting for a chance to use octothorpe in a sentence.)

She recently posted a link to See Dick and Jane Streets at Weather Sealed and their List of Streets wtih Boy Names and List of Streets with Girls Names.  The lists are fabulous, but better still?

Click on a name and you can Google map your way to the 84 streets named Eloise or the 488 called Dudley.

It takes some of the fun out of discovering a street bearing your kid’s name whilst on vacation, but beats cruising around until you find the one street in the US called Jalen.  (It’s in Schofield, Wisconsin.)

Happy trails!

Elsewhere Online: Translate Your Choice for Just $1,678

According to Reuters, a new translation service is available for expecting parents. For just 1,000 pounds – that’s about US $1,678 – the firm will translate a name into 100 languages.

The firm suggests this service will prevent parents from naming their kids things like Suri.  (Speculation has run wild about the name’s meaning ever since Tomkat chose the appellation.)  They also warn about the perils of Kai (apparently it means “stop it” in Yoruba) and Zuma (which means “Lord frowns in anger” in Nahuatl.)

Humphrey Bogart once quipped “You’re not a star until they can spell your name in Karachi.”  If you’re Gwen Stefani, I can imagine that you could fret about how your little one’s name will appear in the press in Shanghai and Dubai and hey, maybe even amongst the Ancient Aztecs.  (Actually, Nahuatl is spoken by more than a million people, mostly in Mexico.  But still.)

And yet somehow, I can’t help think that if you’re into Extreme Baby Naming you can live with the possibility that your kid’s name might not work well in West Frisian or Igbo.

Elsewhere Online: Momentum and Baby Names

How many times have you heard the parent of a small child say something like this: “We didn’t realize Isaiah was getting so popular!”

“I really hope Ruby doesn’t take off!  I hated being one of three Jennifers in my class.”

Or even: “I chose Ava for a girl and then my neighbor/co-worker/sister-in-law stole it!”

My theory is this: the more we hear a name, the more likely we are to consider it for our own children.  It’s why names like Damien and Regan can pop even after they’re used for children that we hope ours won’t emulate.  Ditto name elements – Miley owes some of her success to Billy Ray’s Disney daughter, but more to her similarity to Riley and Kylie.

You and I hear parents’ laments about Ava and Ruby and Isaiah and think: names embraced by celebs/last popular 100 years back/borrowed from the Bible are likely to rise.  We’re not surprised.  But hey, if you’re here, you’re probably more into names than the average person naming a baby right now.

Which is why I think you’ll be pleased as punch to know that NYU psych professor Todd Gureckis and Indiana U’s psych/brain sciences professor Robert Goldstone have researched this very topic.  Their results can be read in the scholarly journalTopics in Cognitive Science.

Read the summary here: Recent ‘momentum’ influences choices of baby names, NYU, Indiana psychology professors find.

I haven’t read the original article – and I’m not sure I have the academic chops to completely digest it – but their finding is this: at least since the 1980s, parents have shown a preference for names that are rising.  Therefore, those names rise.  And so parents continue to show a preference for the rising names.  And so they continue to rise …

It isn’t the whole picture, of course, but it’s an interesting piece.

Babes in the Blogosphere

Happy Mother’s Day!

We’ve always celebrated our kids’ rites of passage – first tooth, first step, first-time-she-brings-home-a-completely-unacceptable-boy.  

Add in one more circa 2009:  first time Mommy writes all about you in a blog post.

Yes, our children will probably be terribly, terribly unhappy about some of our overshares in twenty years.  (Or not.  Social media is a strange and fabulous thing.)  But for the moment, I find myself marveling at the many talented writers who also have a knack for choosing baby names.

Read on for some of my favorite Babes in the Blogosphere:

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